THE 100% NECESSARY OPENER
It doesn't matter how well you can talk, or how much C&F you've "mastered", or how rich your daddy is, if you can't MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT, you might as well stay home!
If you are constantly avoiding the eyes of a woman when trying to approach(looking down etc), it makes you look WEAK! The most wonderful of diatribes could be spouting from your beak, but none of it would matter because your eyes are on the floor, not the girl! And the woman you are "talking" to would be thinking: "man, this guy is a real weakling. He can't even look me in the eye when he talks to me. He can't have much integrity"
EYES communicate more effectively than speech in pick-up situations. For instance:
If a girl is maintaining eye contact with you as you are speaking, she isn't showing signs of disinterest.
If a girl is occasionally throwing glances to the floor, it means that she's really interested and is worried about what she says next. You intimidate her, just like any proper man should.
If a girl is looking everywhere but in your eyes (over your shoulder, to her sides), it means that its over, pal, and you should jump ship ASAP. Disinterested to the max.
So, before you go researching PUA, C&F, NLP, LOL, GWAO, ROFLMAO, etc., master the skill of EYE CONTACT ASAP!
Remember this tip: Eye contact is the BEST OPENER!
It doesn't matter how well you can talk, or how much C&F you've "mastered", or how rich your daddy is, if you can't MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT, you might as well stay home!
If you are constantly avoiding the eyes of a woman when trying to approach(looking down etc), it makes you look WEAK! The most wonderful of diatribes could be spouting from your beak, but none of it would matter because your eyes are on the floor, not the girl! And the woman you are "talking" to would be thinking: "man, this guy is a real weakling. He can't even look me in the eye when he talks to me. He can't have much integrity"
EYES communicate more effectively than speech in pick-up situations. For instance:
If a girl is maintaining eye contact with you as you are speaking, she isn't showing signs of disinterest.
If a girl is occasionally throwing glances to the floor, it means that she's really interested and is worried about what she says next. You intimidate her, just like any proper man should.
If a girl is looking everywhere but in your eyes (over your shoulder, to her sides), it means that its over, pal, and you should jump ship ASAP. Disinterested to the max.
So, before you go researching PUA, C&F, NLP, LOL, GWAO, ROFLMAO, etc., master the skill of EYE CONTACT ASAP!
Remember this tip: Eye contact is the BEST OPENER!
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