i got the same problem too, man. Ive been makin EC like crazy, and saying "hi" to random girls that i pass by on my way to class, and tryin my best to talk to the girls at my university, but they arent interested. I consider myself, lookwise, as average. I've been goin to all the parties. Mainly my good friend's frat house. They have a ton of hot girls there all the time. I try strikin up conversations and stuff, but they always seem disintrested. Then, my friends there can go up to the same girl later on and have her laughin her ass off and all over them in no time flat. Kind of a confidence downer, but im not giving up.
On the first day of class i walked in and saw a ton of empty seats next to hot chicks. its an auditorium class, roughly 275 people. Most of the chicks in there have the same major i do, music business, and the girls in that major arent the best looking or cool chicks to talk to. But anyways, i remember people posting about what to do when they walked into class and saw a seat next to a HB and to go and sit by her, introduce, and talk about whatever. So, i did that and met this HB7. Everything was goin good and all, makin cracks at the teacher and couple of weird lookin dudes that came into class. Had her laughin anyways. After class they were havin a seminar about our major in another class. I was fixing to go to it, and she said she wanted to go to it with me, without even asking her. So far so good. On the way she starts talkin about how she lives by herself and stuff, i was waitin for her to ask me over, but she didnt, lol.
Anyways, she was askin if i was scared about the first day of school not knowing anyone, and i was like "nah, i don't get scared" even though i was nervous, i wasnt goin to let her know. So, we went to the seminar. Stayed the whole time. After it was over, i more than likely could have number closed, but decided not too, cuz she was actually kind of ditsy and weird. Cool to talk to, plus she would have been hangin around me all the time, cuz she kept talkin about how she hasnt made any friends here and a bunch of other crap. Seemed like the type that would go psycho if you were to stop showing interest in after youve had sex.
I got a friend that is in the frat. and he can get girls like it aint no problem. SO i asked him what his secrets are and what he does to get the chicks and he told me. But i was too freakin drunk to remember what he said, so i'll have to ask him the next time im not drunk. The main thing that i remembered him saying is "confidence". I know that i hear that all the time on the DJ board. I consider myself pretty confident. 100% more confident than i used to be.
But man, deffinitely hang in there. Cuz i got the same problems you do. Keep posting with the progress, since im kinda in the same boat.
