ChangedMan
Banned
Okay gentlemen, first and foremost I'd like to thank you all for helping me leave my ltr bpd and realizing what it takes to be a true man in this twisted world. That story my brothers, is for a different day. Okay, on to the post.
Hot bartender, checking me out all night, played cool, got the number. Minimal texts, coc** and funny. Linked up a first date immediately. I work this weekend she says, but next, I'm so down. Perfect I think, only reply with see you Saturday. She concurs.
Nothing from her 4 days, I text, she proceeds to tell me about her recovery and 8 months of sobriety. I knew, as my friends frequent that bar and know her. I tell her I knew and that's why the date I planned (which she agreed to earlier that week) would be a sober one. Again cool and smooth and mysterious and let that be.
Her working weekend, I didn't text or call, nor did she. Twice, she agreed and thanked me about our date Saturday (earlier in the week). Monday I throw this:
Me: Good day, so Saturday 8pm a good time for you?
Her: I have to work we have ufc
Me: Cool
Her: Ya sorry babe. ****ty schedule this weekend
Me: No problem.
Few minutes later
Me: If you find a day you are free let me know and I'll tell you if I am.
Her: Ok hun.
Is this soft of me boys. I'm thinking not to bother with it again. Was my response AFC. Coming out of 9 years and learning from you guys. Let me know what you think.
Hot bartender, checking me out all night, played cool, got the number. Minimal texts, coc** and funny. Linked up a first date immediately. I work this weekend she says, but next, I'm so down. Perfect I think, only reply with see you Saturday. She concurs.
Nothing from her 4 days, I text, she proceeds to tell me about her recovery and 8 months of sobriety. I knew, as my friends frequent that bar and know her. I tell her I knew and that's why the date I planned (which she agreed to earlier that week) would be a sober one. Again cool and smooth and mysterious and let that be.
Her working weekend, I didn't text or call, nor did she. Twice, she agreed and thanked me about our date Saturday (earlier in the week). Monday I throw this:
Me: Good day, so Saturday 8pm a good time for you?
Her: I have to work we have ufc
Me: Cool
Her: Ya sorry babe. ****ty schedule this weekend
Me: No problem.
Few minutes later
Me: If you find a day you are free let me know and I'll tell you if I am.
Her: Ok hun.
Is this soft of me boys. I'm thinking not to bother with it again. Was my response AFC. Coming out of 9 years and learning from you guys. Let me know what you think.