All I can say is to use your judgement. I mean, if i was there, and..stuff, then maybe I could make a better call, but;
- I don't know what kind of perosn you are
- I wasn't there, thus, I have no idea how well you clicked.
- If i was there, that would be SUPREMELY weird.
At the moment, the girl I'm seeing, I haven't even kissed yet. I've seen her 3 times in a week (well, week and a half): 2 real dates, and I dropped in on my way home from school last monday.
Now, we're doing the whole, hugging, gf-bf holding hands and shizz stuff, but she, to me, appears really conservative, so I'm happy to roll with that for a bit (not too long, a man can only go so far
). So, I would NOT say you've "ruined your shot" with her because you didn't jump all over her slobbering. She may even respect you more for leaving it as it was.
In the end, unless you MISSED the opportunity to kiss/makeout, then I don't see a problem. In my case, there have been opportunities, but in typical movie style, we've been interupted (saturday: on her bed, ffs
).
I wouldn't go on dates during the week. Make her wait until the weekend before SHE gets to see YOU, you don't want to give her a LOT of time with you. This may sound slightly hypocritical, but this girl won't be seeing me until either next week sometime, or early December, after exams. I do recognise a bit of AFCness, but honestly, I'm using her as a practise arena to hone my conversational skills, so I think it's been more of a benefit than anything else.
So, to recap:
- Unless you missed a shot going to "first base", then as long as you had fun, I doubt there'd be any trouble right now. Stop doubting yourself, OF COURSE she wants to see you again
- Make her wait to see you. Although, don't fall into conversing with her everyday until then: silence is good.
Syn.