Sun-Tan Superman
Senior Don Juan
Unbielivable article I read... had to cut and paste it for all u other guys:
Finding Niches for Meeting Women
reproduced with permission from: How to Succeed with Women [commercial]
Remember, a niche does three things:
1) Puts women in front of you. If the yoga class, for instance doesn't have any women in it, or any women you'd be attracted to, it's not a niche for you. You want the yoga class, if there is one, that has at least a few hot women in leotards.
2) Gives you an excuse to interact with these women. A dance concert is probably not a very good niche, because it doesn't practically force interaction between the people there--you can go to the concert and not interact with any women, and they probably aren't expecting to be approached and spoken to. A dance _class_ however, could be a niche--the other students will have to interact with you during various exercises, and it wouldn't be unexpected if you were to talk with them.
3) Is an entry point into a community that includes women. The ideal niche is not just a "one-off"--it's a way to get involved with a group of people over time.
Here are places that might be potential niches for meeting women:
Art openings
Fundraising parties and events
Art fairs
Museums
Concerts
Wine tasting parties
Film festivals
Singles parties
Cruises
Church events
Museum singles nights Health places
Yoga classes
The gym
Golf course
Country club
Co-ed sports leagues
Martial art courses Volunteer opportunities
Habitat for Humanity
The singles volunteer network
Political campaigns
The Red Cross
Non-profit community organizations (e.g., hospitals or publicly funded radio stations.)
Literacy programs
PTA's
Artists organizations
Places to meet freaky chicks
Sex clubs
The Society for Creative Anachronisms
Renaissance fairs
Rainbow gatherings
The "Burning Man Festival"
"Channeling" sessions and other way-out new age stuff
Psychic fairs
Sci-fi conventions
Performance art gigs
Weird nightclubs
Nudist clubs, associations, and organizations
An S&M night club
Spiritual and personal growth opportunities
Personal growth seminars (For example: the Forum, MORE University, Miracle of Love, course in miracles)
New Age spiritual communities
Meditation class
Spas
"The Artist's Way" courses
Support groups for any addiction or health problem
Opportunities in your daily life
On the train or bus
Waiting in a line
At a service station
On the train or bus
In Laundromat
At a coffee shop
Get your family and friends support
Set you up with their exes
Set you up with their relatives
Set you up with their co-workers
Set you up with their friends
Set you up on blind dates
Help you create a singles party at your home
Places to find smart chicks
Libraries
Book discussions/ book groups
Historical society presentations
Political debates
Book conventions
MENSA meetings
Places to meet party girls
Sleazy bars
Punk rock concerts
Raves
Outdoor music events
Pot rallys
Heroin needle exchange programs
Clubs to check out
Film discussion groups
Book clubs and salons
Dance
Outdoor adventure clubs
Singles travel clubs
To find your niches, you'll need to make a habit of getting whatever weekly paper in your area has a social calendar, and looking it over for events you could go to that meet at least two of the three criteria for a niche. Then put them into your datebook.
When the time comes, GET OFF THE COUCH and go to your niches!
Finding Niches for Meeting Women
reproduced with permission from: How to Succeed with Women [commercial]
Remember, a niche does three things:
1) Puts women in front of you. If the yoga class, for instance doesn't have any women in it, or any women you'd be attracted to, it's not a niche for you. You want the yoga class, if there is one, that has at least a few hot women in leotards.
2) Gives you an excuse to interact with these women. A dance concert is probably not a very good niche, because it doesn't practically force interaction between the people there--you can go to the concert and not interact with any women, and they probably aren't expecting to be approached and spoken to. A dance _class_ however, could be a niche--the other students will have to interact with you during various exercises, and it wouldn't be unexpected if you were to talk with them.
3) Is an entry point into a community that includes women. The ideal niche is not just a "one-off"--it's a way to get involved with a group of people over time.
Here are places that might be potential niches for meeting women:
Art openings
Fundraising parties and events
Art fairs
Museums
Concerts
Wine tasting parties
Film festivals
Singles parties
Cruises
Church events
Museum singles nights Health places
Yoga classes
The gym
Golf course
Country club
Co-ed sports leagues
Martial art courses Volunteer opportunities
Habitat for Humanity
The singles volunteer network
Political campaigns
The Red Cross
Non-profit community organizations (e.g., hospitals or publicly funded radio stations.)
Literacy programs
PTA's
Artists organizations
Places to meet freaky chicks
Sex clubs
The Society for Creative Anachronisms
Renaissance fairs
Rainbow gatherings
The "Burning Man Festival"
"Channeling" sessions and other way-out new age stuff
Psychic fairs
Sci-fi conventions
Performance art gigs
Weird nightclubs
Nudist clubs, associations, and organizations
An S&M night club
Spiritual and personal growth opportunities
Personal growth seminars (For example: the Forum, MORE University, Miracle of Love, course in miracles)
New Age spiritual communities
Meditation class
Spas
"The Artist's Way" courses
Support groups for any addiction or health problem
Opportunities in your daily life
On the train or bus
Waiting in a line
At a service station
On the train or bus
In Laundromat
At a coffee shop
Get your family and friends support
Set you up with their exes
Set you up with their relatives
Set you up with their co-workers
Set you up with their friends
Set you up on blind dates
Help you create a singles party at your home
Places to find smart chicks
Libraries
Book discussions/ book groups
Historical society presentations
Political debates
Book conventions
MENSA meetings
Places to meet party girls
Sleazy bars
Punk rock concerts
Raves
Outdoor music events
Pot rallys
Heroin needle exchange programs
Clubs to check out
Film discussion groups
Book clubs and salons
Dance
Outdoor adventure clubs
Singles travel clubs
To find your niches, you'll need to make a habit of getting whatever weekly paper in your area has a social calendar, and looking it over for events you could go to that meet at least two of the three criteria for a niche. Then put them into your datebook.
When the time comes, GET OFF THE COUCH and go to your niches!
