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Finally got laid.

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I finally lost my v-card recently. And it wasn't even because of any PUA stuff. Basically my friend hooked me up with this girl he used to screw with. We just went to her house and one thing lead to another. I basically got head while my friend was ****ing her.

She let me try to have sex with her. So basically, I put in her for a few minutes but since this was my first time, I didn't have that much endurance.

So basically my more experienced friend just kept ****ing the **** out of her, till he "came".

Gonna be honest, wasn't the best first time; but at least I can say I've had sex, which is more than most guys can.
 

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Yeah at least you've got it out of the way now, it will probably make you feel better when talking to women.

Are most guys on here actually virgins? If so, who's giving out all the advice?
 

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at least you lost your virginity

your kinda brave to, i had a chance like this multiple times where me and a friend double team a girl


i just always backed out because i always thought it would be awkward to see my friends package and him seeing mine and both of us got stiffs on even thought were doing a girl..


just going off topic is this common thing to do among guys?
 

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My friends used to do the ole switcharoo back in the day. Invite some girl over, one guy would be doing her in a pitch black room, then he'd leave and the next guy would slip in and do her. Most of the time the girl 'knew' but everyone pretended that it didn't happen. I guess some girls are more open these days about doing multiple guys in the same sitting.

To the OP congrats. No go forth and conquer.
 

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Hahaha, you got one of the best/sickest stories on how a guy lost his virginity :crackup: ...
 

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ElStud said:
Gonna be honest, wasn't the best first time; but at least I can say I've had sex, which is more than most guys can.
Wait, what? Really?

I don't believe that. Please elaborate.
 

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I really never understood why a guy would want to stick his **** in a hole that he knew his friend smashed. I'm in a fraternity and my bruhs do this alot. I'm always the first to hit or I don't at all. I'd only do this if the b*tch was a dime.
 

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The very thought of it sends me straight to the vomitorium. To each, his own.
 

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Heh. The first 2 minute missionary fumble is so fun. I remember mine. Not as eventful as that.
 

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So you lost virginity on sloppy seconds? Congrats I guess but I gotta agree with PrettyBoy and Atom.

I am not able to screw a girl one of my boys has screwed. Its an ego and an "ew" thing for me. On the ego thing, its because I dont wanna have a girl that my boy has had first. I want a chick that I know they coudlnt have. Plus I find it gross to put my dik in a place my dudes have been, especially since I know them well. Just dont need the image in my head either.

And you doing it literally right after he did I dont understand. This almost seems like an alpha wolf letting an beta get a small taste after he caught the meal, but only AFTER he fed his own hunger first.

So yeah whenm my friends become sexual or emotionally invovled with a girl, right then and there I put her in a friend zone so I dont overstep boundaries.

Now go find your own chick and get some practice in, young buck.
 

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I've double teamed a chick(the same one) with a buddy a couple times.

Then another buddy asked me to fvck his girlfriend(a lot more coy and more weening me into it involved) But, ya. I did it 3 times....Was good.

(When I did this it was uncomfortable and I had to just focus on the girl, but I made it work)

But my V-Card was also the 2 minute missionary fumble. I was 17. Didn't want to cause we didn't have any condoms, didn't want to steal one of her moms, scared her mom would notice....I just put a little pressure on, pretend like I've done it before XD lol

Get her upstairs to her moms room. 2 minutes later....I pull out, kinda jizz on her moms bed lol. Her mom comes home shortly after and yells upstairs(she knows we're up there) Saved me some embarassment.

Funny after story. Like 2 or 3 days after that. We were all laying on her couch and she said she had to tell me something. But she left it there. My heart sank. I was such a noob I thought she was going to say she was pregnant lol. She just had to say she loved me....I stopped seeing her after that XD
 

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Jaylan said:
So you lost virginity on sloppy seconds? Congrats I guess but I gotta agree with PrettyBoy and Atom.

I am not able to screw a girl one of my boys has screwed. Its an ego and an "ew" thing for me. On the ego thing, its because I dont wanna have a girl that my boy has had first. I want a chick that I know they coudlnt have. Plus I find it gross to put my dik in a place my dudes have been, especially since I know them well. Just dont need the image in my head either.

And you doing it literally right after he did I dont understand. This almost seems like an alpha wolf letting an beta get a small taste after he caught the meal, but only AFTER he fed his own hunger first.

So yeah whenm my friends become sexual or emotionally invovled with a girl, right then and there I put her in a friend zone so I dont overstep boundaries.

Now go find your own chick and get some practice in, young buck.
Pretty much. Pretty much just started out with my friend dry humping her, while she gave me a blow job. Then after a while, he joined in and actually started to screw her; while she was still sucking me off. Then after a while, she just let him screw her till he came.

Remember though, we were using condoms.
 

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I paid 1500 rubles for my first time.

For the first week, or less, you'll feel awesome and macho and whatever. But then some chemicals in your head wear out and you go back to the regular feeling.

For me right now sex is nothing, I can pay for it anytime. What's really matters is love. Give love to a woman and be loved by a woman. Preferably maximum beautiful woman, I don't even wanna marry her.
 

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But my V-Card was also the 2 minute missionary fumble. I was 17. Didn't want to cause we didn't have any condoms, didn't want to steal one of her moms, scared her mom would notice....I just put a little pressure on, pretend like I've done it before XD lol

Get her upstairs to her moms room. 2 minutes later....I pull out, kinda jizz on her moms bed lol. Her mom comes home shortly after and yells upstairs(she knows we're up there) Saved me some embarassment.

Funny after story. Like 2 or 3 days after that. We were all laying on her couch and she said she had to tell me something. But she left it there. My heart sank. I was such a noob I thought she was going to say she was pregnant lol. She just had to say she loved me....I stopped seeing her after that XD
Hahah, this made me laugh, right on.

And OP, congrats man!! Like some have said, at least you got it "out of the way" now and hopefully you will relax a bit and be more confident going forward. A lot of guys keep their V-card a lot longer than they should because of all of the pressure they put on "losing their 'V-card". It's like when you want something too much, you usually screw up. as the old saying goes "if you grab on to something to tightly, you just might have it slip away from you".

But yeah, good job, and use this momentum now to try to game up other chicks. And you are wrong as far as "this is what most guys can say". lol Well, I dunno everyone on the forum, but my self and most of my buddies lost our V-card but a longgg time ago lol, I'm talking EARLY teens ;), so no, I don't think most 21 year old dudes are virgins,, at least I hope not.. if you have any kinda confidence at all you should be able to score these days.. so use your newfound confidence and get out there and make "getting laid" a regular thing for you that is not such a big deal.. I mean, it's always good and all, but it sholdn't be "heyyy world, I got laid" lol, it should be something that happens so often that you're like "oh yeah, of course I got laid this weekend".
 

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I'm not really impressed at all by this and don't think there is any bragging rights. First of all, it is disgusting to have a two male threesome with a girl. That girl could have just been there because of your friend. You don't know if she has AIDS or your friend has AIDS.

For all the field reports you've invested in talking to women, chatting them up, this is the best you could come up with? A slvt you could probably pick up from any adult site, or even an escort?

I'm sorry, but like Maxtro, you are STILL MENTALLY a virgin and nothing has changed. Just because you physically lose your virginity doesn't make you a non-virgin. All you did was stick you thing in some slvt's mouth and pvssy, so what? You didn't gain something that you can now apply to other women?

You've also LOST sexual confidence. You have little endurance. So, now you know you can't seduce a woman, you can't go any normal route and need a friend to prop you up since you don't have a chance on your own, and if you do manage to get that far, you probably can't last for more than a minute.

I think this board is retarded to discourage people to see escorts or prostitutes or masturbate to a vagina replica to boost endurance, and think well, since he didn't pay for this now he has braging rights, this is okay -- really retarded. He is still a virgin like Maxtro is.
 

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Why do guys attack each other on here. Calling someone out on something is one thing but getting personal is completely different. Half of you are like 30+ grow up.
 

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sexysuave said:
But yeah, good job, and use this momentum now to try to game up other chicks.
Yeah, he should have his friend as a wing-man and pray he picks up someone who is into male male threesomes, or introduce other girls he sees to his friend since he is such a stud.

sexysuave said:
if you have any kinda confidence at all you should be able to score these days.. so use your newfound confidence and get out there and make "getting laid" a regular thing for you that is not such a big deal.. I mean, it's always good and all, but it sholdn't be "heyyy world, I got laid" lol, it should be something that happens so often that you're like "oh yeah, of course I got laid this weekend".
He has confidence in his friend.
 

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Drdeee said:
I paid 1500 rubles for my first time.
That's about $ 50.00 U.S. What can you get in Russia for $50?

Did she stay all night long, was this a quickie?
 

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corrector said:
I'm not really impressed at all by this and don't think there is any bragging rights. First of all, it is disgusting to have a two male threesome with a girl. That girl could have just been there because of your friend. You don't know if she has AIDS or your friend has AIDS.

For all the field reports you've invested in talking to women, chatting them up, this is the best you could come up with? A slvt you could probably pick up from any adult site, or even an escort?

I'm sorry, but like Maxtro, you are STILL MENTALLY a virgin and nothing has changed. Just because you physically lose your virginity doesn't make you a non-virgin. All you did was stick you thing in some slvt's mouth and pvssy, so what? You didn't gain something that you can now apply to other women?

You've also LOST sexual confidence. You have little endurance. So, now you know you can't seduce a woman, you can't go any normal route and need a friend to prop you up since you don't have a chance on your own, and if you do manage to get that far, you probably can't last for more than a minute.

I think this board is retarded to discourage people to see escorts or prostitutes or masturbate to a vagina replica to boost endurance, and think well, since he didn't pay for this now he has braging rights, this is okay -- really retarded. He is still a virgin like Maxtro is.
Is what it is man. "Physical virginity" "mental virginity", it's all the same to me. You have to understand I wasn't even trying to get laid, we were just there and it sort of happened after a while. I'm basically just happy that I got it out of the way and can finally die knowing how it feels to get a ******* or to screw a chick.

The thing is, is that I've been approaching women and number closing for years and I was still a virgin. And the reason I was approaching anyway was to basically eventually lose my virginity. So I did lose my virginity.

From here on though, now that I know that sex isn't a big deal... I'm going to focus more on finding a chick that I actually like who'll be worth more than a one night stand to me.
 
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