Well..
I think I have discovered another reason why some women have AFCs as friends.
Not only do they use them as emotional tampons they use them to get a leg up on guys who are dating them.
On the weekend I told a girl that I would like to take her out again (for a second date). I told her that we could just do something fun and there would no need to plan anything. We would figure out what to do when I met her at the coffee shop.
I met up with her and parked next to her car and then called her over. She had a paper with her that had movie listings.
She got in my car and started to read the paper. She wanted to see a movie. I figured she wanted to see Walk the line and suggested that to her. She told me that she wanted to see that with her guy friend. I was a bit taken back to that because I had quized her on what movies she liked on the first date and Walk the line was one of them.
Then she gave me the paper and I looked at it. While I was looking I started to feel rather insulted. I was being upstaged by one of her "guy friends". Regardless, I looked at the paper and asked her what else she was interested in. She couldn't make up her mind. So I just looked at the paper and said, "well there doesn't seem to be anything else interesting that is playing at this time"
Then my DJing kicked in and I realized that the only way out of this situation was either a) end the date, b) take her someplace else. I wasn't going to be #2 on her list of importance.
Anyway, I realized that I was being upstaged so I said, "ah there is nothing good on lets go play pool and get a drink, have some fun" She then said, "I don't drink". At that moment she started reading all the movie descriptions in a frantic manner. She didn't know what do to. I didn't want to go to a movie with her. I wanted to take her out for some fun.
At that point, I was starting to get rather annoyed with her. She was nothing but a dull b-itch and now she is trying to force a movie on me? It almost seemed as if her plan was backfiring.
And this is where I lost my cool.
I started to debate ending the date, but then I figured that a movie would be the best way to get my wits back. So I told her to stop looking at the paper and just go the theater to see what is playing. She quickly made up her mind as to what movie she wanted to see.
I drove her there and the only thing that was playing was derailed. She was like, "oh I don't know about that movie. it doesn't sound that great" I replied with, "ah lets just go with things who cares anyway". I was thinking, "you're not worth anything f-ucken good"
I sat down with her and watched the movie. I went up to buy pop corn and a drink. I was very nice to her and asked if she wanted anything. She refused my offer. I came back and then totally ignored her for the entire movie.
The move wasn't that bad and she ended up liking it. I then said to her, "yeah, that is what happens when you just go with things. "
After that, I droped her off at her car and didn't let her get close to me for a hug. I just gave her my shoulder and said bye to her from an angle.
Anyway, this is the kind of **** I sometimes have to put up with.
There is nothing worse then a stupid cold b-itch like that. I could of DJed her and got something out of her but she just pissed me off with her failure to show some damn respect.
In conclusion, I lost my cool with this girl due to her lack of respect. I don't really care though, girls like that are useless for LTRs.
I'm still rather pissed of about the whole thing.
Might send her an email with the following, "Hey. Just letting you know that next weekend I have plans with someone. You're way too cold for me"
I think I have discovered another reason why some women have AFCs as friends.
Not only do they use them as emotional tampons they use them to get a leg up on guys who are dating them.
On the weekend I told a girl that I would like to take her out again (for a second date). I told her that we could just do something fun and there would no need to plan anything. We would figure out what to do when I met her at the coffee shop.
I met up with her and parked next to her car and then called her over. She had a paper with her that had movie listings.
She got in my car and started to read the paper. She wanted to see a movie. I figured she wanted to see Walk the line and suggested that to her. She told me that she wanted to see that with her guy friend. I was a bit taken back to that because I had quized her on what movies she liked on the first date and Walk the line was one of them.
Then she gave me the paper and I looked at it. While I was looking I started to feel rather insulted. I was being upstaged by one of her "guy friends". Regardless, I looked at the paper and asked her what else she was interested in. She couldn't make up her mind. So I just looked at the paper and said, "well there doesn't seem to be anything else interesting that is playing at this time"
Then my DJing kicked in and I realized that the only way out of this situation was either a) end the date, b) take her someplace else. I wasn't going to be #2 on her list of importance.
Anyway, I realized that I was being upstaged so I said, "ah there is nothing good on lets go play pool and get a drink, have some fun" She then said, "I don't drink". At that moment she started reading all the movie descriptions in a frantic manner. She didn't know what do to. I didn't want to go to a movie with her. I wanted to take her out for some fun.
At that point, I was starting to get rather annoyed with her. She was nothing but a dull b-itch and now she is trying to force a movie on me? It almost seemed as if her plan was backfiring.
And this is where I lost my cool.
I started to debate ending the date, but then I figured that a movie would be the best way to get my wits back. So I told her to stop looking at the paper and just go the theater to see what is playing. She quickly made up her mind as to what movie she wanted to see.
I drove her there and the only thing that was playing was derailed. She was like, "oh I don't know about that movie. it doesn't sound that great" I replied with, "ah lets just go with things who cares anyway". I was thinking, "you're not worth anything f-ucken good"
I sat down with her and watched the movie. I went up to buy pop corn and a drink. I was very nice to her and asked if she wanted anything. She refused my offer. I came back and then totally ignored her for the entire movie.
The move wasn't that bad and she ended up liking it. I then said to her, "yeah, that is what happens when you just go with things. "
After that, I droped her off at her car and didn't let her get close to me for a hug. I just gave her my shoulder and said bye to her from an angle.
Anyway, this is the kind of **** I sometimes have to put up with.
There is nothing worse then a stupid cold b-itch like that. I could of DJed her and got something out of her but she just pissed me off with her failure to show some damn respect.
In conclusion, I lost my cool with this girl due to her lack of respect. I don't really care though, girls like that are useless for LTRs.
I'm still rather pissed of about the whole thing.
Might send her an email with the following, "Hey. Just letting you know that next weekend I have plans with someone. You're way too cold for me"
