GuanYu said:
Best thing you can do is not to give a damn about what other people may think.
If it were me and some chick always talked about sex with me like that, I'd say something along the lines of "Well damn, you keep talkin like that you're gonna make me want to get you in the sheets."
Of course she'll laugh, at which time you shouldn't evem crack a smile. Just immediately start caressing her arms or something and keep flirting until she gets the hint you want to fvck.
I wouldn't even bother with neggin her. Just be very direct and she'll get the hint you're not there for games(if you're serious about bangin her)
From what you've said thus far, it doesn't seem like you've made many direct moves to get the panties off. Now is the time to do just that.
Even if she's not your type, so what? Guess what's between her legs? Something warm and enjoyable that every man should like.
Oh yeah, and this chick sounds like a h0 bag so if you don't hit it, it's your own fault. Get out there and good luck dude.
LOL - now that's what I call a tip!
I have a lot of platonic girl-friends. It can be a little weird to be honest. I haven't thought too much about getting with any of them because they are just in the friend-zone for me. But it's true that, just because we're friends, we sometimes feel an attraction. I know some very promiscuous women. Others are "omni-sexuals." We get to talking about sex, and I'm sitting there thinking "that sounds pretty good right about now." That and I'm a virgin by choice.
I would worry about it more if women didn't keep appearing out of thin air that like me. It's pretty great but that's another story. I'm not sure what to say because I have never known what to do. On the one hand, friendships can make great flings, but there's the risk of losing a friendship and then all the divisions among groups of friends. It has always seemed so complicated to me, and I am not a complicated person so I just meet women on the bus.
But on the other hand, I think it's a good idea to trust and follow a feeling you have in a moment. If she's talking about sex, dude you're pretty much already in the sack if you want to be. Direct the conversation away from sex with men in particular and toward sex in general. Just start talking about your favorite positions. Ask her what hers are. Increase that sexual tension exponentially. Make it so you can't even breathe in that room. Get her touching you somehow, grab stuff from your hand, get her to give you a massage. You will feel a spark. And, if you want it, you will have some *****.
Judging from your post, it seems to me that you tend to repress your desires rather than follow them. That does not make converting friends very easy. I would know.
Just a brush of openness.
Love,
Izza
PS I'm not sure why but women just need to know what your motivations are. So make sure that you call her sexy or something. Ask her what she likes about you. Make sure she knows what you want - even if you don't know, tell her that.
