lately, with this one girl i've been spending time with, it seems like all my strategies are being mirrored. everytime i come up with a plan, she delivers one that's almost just the same. for example, i read the article about how you should "accidentally" leave something behind, like a watch or a sweater or something so that they'll look at it causing them to think about you and become a little more interested. the next day, and this i realize could have been a coincidental accident, she leaves her wallet in the back seat of my parent's van (sadly, i have yet to get my drivers license). what's worse, i caught myself looking at the picture id that you could see just by opening the wallet a little. every time i see opportunity for a neg-hit or something, she turns it on me first. her intentions are obvious, it's just that i'm wondering if they've found that several of our strategies also work against us. has anyone else had a problem like this?