Alright, so I've read a lot of DJ material over the years. I discovered this site my sophomore year of high school and it helped me out quite a bit. I went from an anti-social loser to having a wide circle of friends. I'm now a freshman in college and while I have plenty of friends here, I feel very behind everyone.
I've never kissed a girl before. The number of girls I've danced with can be counted on one hand (luckily all involved grinding ). I just feel like I'm so far behind everyone else. People start talking about their first kiss and I suddenly get really silent. Usually I'm pretty talkative but since I've never had one, I get very awkward. I tell myself not to let it bother me, but it just DOES. It's this constant dread in the back of my mind that I just can't seem to get over. It's always nagging in the back of my mind, reminding me of how far behind I am. Plus all the girls I've talked to say they want boyfriends who have been in a few relationships because they find other ones to be too immature.
I don't even care about losing my virginity at this point. All I want right now is a ****ing kiss. That's it.
I also feel really lost on what I should be doing to get this done. I feel like I've got the DJ attitude down in my head, and I feel very confident and have a good sense of humor. I'm not a pushover but I'm also nice up to a point.
I just don't know where to go from here like how to go about actually getting a date. Who do I ask? When? Where? What type of date do college students go on?
Or at a party, what do I do? I seem to just freeze up and hang with my friends the entire time.
I know what I want, I just have no idea what steps to get there. I've NEVER made a move in my entire life (well, I asked a girl out once but that was an epic failure). I just kind of go through my life normally and am content but I still want that kiss and a GF. I just have no idea how.
I really wish I had someone who could help me out IRL.
I've never kissed a girl before. The number of girls I've danced with can be counted on one hand (luckily all involved grinding ). I just feel like I'm so far behind everyone else. People start talking about their first kiss and I suddenly get really silent. Usually I'm pretty talkative but since I've never had one, I get very awkward. I tell myself not to let it bother me, but it just DOES. It's this constant dread in the back of my mind that I just can't seem to get over. It's always nagging in the back of my mind, reminding me of how far behind I am. Plus all the girls I've talked to say they want boyfriends who have been in a few relationships because they find other ones to be too immature.
I don't even care about losing my virginity at this point. All I want right now is a ****ing kiss. That's it.
I also feel really lost on what I should be doing to get this done. I feel like I've got the DJ attitude down in my head, and I feel very confident and have a good sense of humor. I'm not a pushover but I'm also nice up to a point.
I just don't know where to go from here like how to go about actually getting a date. Who do I ask? When? Where? What type of date do college students go on?
Or at a party, what do I do? I seem to just freeze up and hang with my friends the entire time.
I know what I want, I just have no idea what steps to get there. I've NEVER made a move in my entire life (well, I asked a girl out once but that was an epic failure). I just kind of go through my life normally and am content but I still want that kiss and a GF. I just have no idea how.
I really wish I had someone who could help me out IRL.