For years now I have insisted that BPD is over-diagnosed by members and that the symptoms are really a sign of low interest.
Well, last night when I joked that my girlfriend (now in our 6th month of dating) was a narcissist she said "It's interesting you would use that word, I have a similar condition called Borderline Personality Disorder". I said "No you don't" and she said she was officially diagnosed twice. I said "Listen, if you ever decide you don't like me anymore, I won't be so arrogant as to insist you must have a personality disorder" and she laughed. I reminded her that I once told her she was smart for not trusting me and she told me that made her trust me.
My point of this thread is, this girl has been incredible for the 14 months I've known her. She has never "painted me black" or "gone cold" for too long. Thus, even if a girl officially has BPD, it doesn't mean she won't love you or be the best girl you ever dated.
"Blame it all on yourself 'cause she's always a woman to me" - Billy Joel
Well, last night when I joked that my girlfriend (now in our 6th month of dating) was a narcissist she said "It's interesting you would use that word, I have a similar condition called Borderline Personality Disorder". I said "No you don't" and she said she was officially diagnosed twice. I said "Listen, if you ever decide you don't like me anymore, I won't be so arrogant as to insist you must have a personality disorder" and she laughed. I reminded her that I once told her she was smart for not trusting me and she told me that made her trust me.
My point of this thread is, this girl has been incredible for the 14 months I've known her. She has never "painted me black" or "gone cold" for too long. Thus, even if a girl officially has BPD, it doesn't mean she won't love you or be the best girl you ever dated.
"Blame it all on yourself 'cause she's always a woman to me" - Billy Joel