I'm happy that I can say I have a cool dad. He is a businessman. One with a real passion about what he is doing, one who really thinks about things before he does or say something.
When it comes to personality, I would describe him as a DJ who has always been a real jerk at times, but since he is in the beginning of his 50s, he kind of repents of some of his sins right now. He has had three long relationships (one marriage with my mom) in his life and several crushes and girlfriends and three kids. He learned it the hard way with women (believe me...), but never had problems getting them. Furthermore: the periods when he is single (like now) he always has some 3/4 games going on. And some of them are really young beautiful women!
My father is quite charismatic, dominant and very straight to the point with women, yet he is an introvert. I think his dominance left life lasting impression with his exes because of that, but that's another story!
Being the tutoring father he his, he provides his sons with information on how to get women lately. My brother doesn't really care, he's in a fairy tale relationship/slavery with his GF . But hell, I DO care of course! It is very interesting, and almost everything he says sounds like it comes directly from the DJ Bible.
So let's get to the point. He told me something that kind of contradicts most advice here on sosuave. He said:
"Son, I always have been very direct to women. It's what I always do. When I have a conversation with a women, and I like her, I say I like her."
"If she asks why I approached her or started a conversation with her, I say that it's because I find her attractive."
"And when I feel it's time, I tell her I want to do something together and get her phone number."
"I never make things more complicated than they need to, and yes being direct involves a risk. But who cares... it saves me a lot of my precious time."
"And when I am, what you young people call 'rejected', a rediculous term because if you see it as a rejection you are only rejecting yourself, then I just say to myself 'what a *****' and I go on."
"I have no difficulty at all to say to a woman that I like her. It is the way it is, and it is the reason I want to hang out with her."
I like his advice. I am a direct person too, but because of my fear and over-analysing I make things very complicated sometimes. He's quite fearless, and has a ''just do it'' mentality. But from a sosuave point of view, he might be considered as too direct I think. Maybe it is a culture difference between USA and Western Europe? Not sure about that. But what I can remember is that my succesful pickups in life were mostly the ones straight to the point. My biggest failures too, actually .
I am very curious... what do you guys think about this?
When it comes to personality, I would describe him as a DJ who has always been a real jerk at times, but since he is in the beginning of his 50s, he kind of repents of some of his sins right now. He has had three long relationships (one marriage with my mom) in his life and several crushes and girlfriends and three kids. He learned it the hard way with women (believe me...), but never had problems getting them. Furthermore: the periods when he is single (like now) he always has some 3/4 games going on. And some of them are really young beautiful women!
My father is quite charismatic, dominant and very straight to the point with women, yet he is an introvert. I think his dominance left life lasting impression with his exes because of that, but that's another story!
Being the tutoring father he his, he provides his sons with information on how to get women lately. My brother doesn't really care, he's in a fairy tale relationship/slavery with his GF . But hell, I DO care of course! It is very interesting, and almost everything he says sounds like it comes directly from the DJ Bible.
So let's get to the point. He told me something that kind of contradicts most advice here on sosuave. He said:
"Son, I always have been very direct to women. It's what I always do. When I have a conversation with a women, and I like her, I say I like her."
"If she asks why I approached her or started a conversation with her, I say that it's because I find her attractive."
"And when I feel it's time, I tell her I want to do something together and get her phone number."
"I never make things more complicated than they need to, and yes being direct involves a risk. But who cares... it saves me a lot of my precious time."
"And when I am, what you young people call 'rejected', a rediculous term because if you see it as a rejection you are only rejecting yourself, then I just say to myself 'what a *****' and I go on."
"I have no difficulty at all to say to a woman that I like her. It is the way it is, and it is the reason I want to hang out with her."
I like his advice. I am a direct person too, but because of my fear and over-analysing I make things very complicated sometimes. He's quite fearless, and has a ''just do it'' mentality. But from a sosuave point of view, he might be considered as too direct I think. Maybe it is a culture difference between USA and Western Europe? Not sure about that. But what I can remember is that my succesful pickups in life were mostly the ones straight to the point. My biggest failures too, actually .
I am very curious... what do you guys think about this?