i have a little time, the wife is gone out, the baby is knocked out.. and this post after letting it marinating for a mintue, i think i agree with this.
women aren't stupid. anyone who tells you otherwise is an idiot. my mother has a masters degree and is as smart as a whip. there is nothing that she can't do from a book smart standpoint if you sat down and showed her how to do it. helped me with my HS homework all though HS regardless of what i was doing, chemistry, AP calc.
i've dated too many women who i have seen when they apply themselves are just as smart as anyone else.
I can firmly believe, this article.
my question to the forum is this. why is it so easy for women to become women, yet it's so hard for men to become men?
women, have no problem becoming feminane, women. yes they have their issues, but they know what a woman is supposed to be and they become that, deposite all the reality TV shows, deposit all the ip hones and the jockying guys do for their time
why do men on avg, suck so ****ing bad in the sense that they don't "get it". WHY DON'T men try to become men?
are men really that ****ing afraid of women they never even try?
is it because society tells them they will never amount to **** anyway? is it because men are allowed to roam around the house well into their twenties (greatest thing my mom ever did in my life, kick me out when i was 18 lol, i hated it then, god i hated it, i love her for it today).
and you sit back and think about it, and you look at a man and you talk to him and you realize, most men, don't even aspire to become men. most men don't dream about antying other than watching football and hopeuflly ****ing a decent looking broad or two.
as much as i love my son, the day he's 18 he's gone lol. you are either going to sink or swim son lol. my dad's dad did it to him, my dad and mom did it to me.
i watch alot of animal shows. I like wildlife and joe my son is in the dinosoaur phase, and i actually like them too so we watch alot of stuff like that. Anyway, we were watching what was that show... walking with dinosaurs about 2-3 weeks ago, and there was this something, id on't knwo what the **** it was. it was big as **** whatever it was i remember that.
anyway, she had this baby. she faught off preadtors to pretect her baby the day it was born. this baby followed her around for 2 years, she taught him everything she knew.
she got pregnant again, and like 11 months later or whatever the hell, a few days bfeore she knew she was about to give birth, she woke up ande basically told the baby dinosour, who was like 3 at the time, look i don't know where you are going tubt you got to get the hell out of here. you aren't going to learn atying else from me, it's time for yoiu to go and do your thing. he didn't like it. he tired to come back and she shoed him off. he wondered off, got beat up, ran home to mom and mom, now with another baby, chased him off again and told him to GTFO.
i say that to day that... if you look at any animial in the wild, there is always that transiation period, where, life ****ing sucks. you miss the comforts of home. the easy food. the protection of a bigger parent from lifes issues. but the parent dinosour/tiger/lion/whatever, knows that , you have to go through that to learn on your own. there is only so much i can teach you.
men don't have that doay for the most part. in fact it's the exact opposite. men are coddled to the point where we go out of our way to prevent antying whatsoever negativie happening to them. we send them to college and send htem money. i know one guy, some what, that sends his like, 27 year old son 500 a month so he can pay bills so he "WON'T GET INTO DEBT". what kinda **** is that?
becuase men never go through that, learning how to beocme a pride leader, how to do things the right way, they never grow up.
I mean I look at my oneitis who brought me here, and while she had her issues, she had a ****ing plan and i'll be damned if she wasn't out the house for good at 23 years old and married at 25. i guess that's not that spectcular but she went to a local school and lived at home while in college and she didn't graduate college utnil she was 22 almost 23. she got a job the day she walked and moved out... with her fiancee lol but still.
why is it so easy for women to get life in general, to learn how to run a household, to actually get a household to run, to learn how to be a woman around a man, to learn how to cook, to learn how to dress like an adult, yet you have 25-26 30 year old dudes runinng around peacocking with black vans and black nails on and ****, living with room mates and with parents, can't cook **** and are proud of it and don't know anything about antying outside of how to play video games or college football?