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facials: sexual degradation or not?

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Serious question. Strong content




Why does almost every single skin-flick I see end in a facial (not the spa kind, but the act of a man ejaculating on a woman's face)? Obviously, there must be a huge demand for it--but why? Is it the act empowerment over the female? Is it something else?

In my personal experience, the only women I've actually desired (and enjoyed) giving facials to were women with questionable, sexual pasts. I've never really desired to give facials to women that I've loved unconditionally. There was one instance, even, where I was totally in love with a girl, and then later found out about her shady past. After I found out, I found myself wanting (and doing) kinkier stuff with her; e.g., unprotected anal, videotaping, face shots, etc.

The facial, in particular, seems so demeaning. I mean, when semen is not used for it's natural biological function--namely, reproduction--it simply becomes bodily waste like feces or urine. Does this not, then, mean that ejaculating on a woman's face is no different than giving her a golden shower or crapping on her face (minus the odors, of course)? Does the facial reduce the woman to nothing more than an object to collect human waste (like a toilet or a Kleenex tissue)?

You could ejaculate on or in different body parts and orifices, but none seem to have the same effect as climaxing on a woman's face. Is it because the face is linked with identity? When you show a picture of someone to another person, you don't point to their elbow and say, "This is so and so"-- you point to their face. So when you give a woman a facial, are you simply sh*tting on them as a person, symbolically? To be sure, when guys talk about sexual experiences, they seem to talk about a facial as a complete act of domination. For instance, in my experience, instead of saying, "I came on her face," they usually say something along the lines of, "I came all over her face," as if implying total dominance and victory over something.

Am I making too much of this? Is it simply non-deviant, sexual pleasure insofar as the face gives feedback? That is to say, other body parts can't react or show emotions; but by ejaculating on a woman's face, you get signs of pleasure and enjoyment.
Is it simply the thrill of emulating porn stars in action?

I would love to hear your opinions.
 

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You're a much more caring person than I am.

How about this:
By doing it, she is showing your commitment and affection for you.
 

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I agree, it's about domination. I think, atleast partially, anal sex is also about domination.
 

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Personally it's disgusting to me. It's the response of a few twisted and perverted porn producers and directors.

I can't think of any man who would want to *** on his woman's face and then kiss her afterwards.

Think about that. Your woman now has your *** all over her face and wants to snuggle up with you afterwards. What do you do?

a) let her (gay) cause your face is now has male sperm on it.
b) push her away
c) make her wash up first..then why do it to begin with, and nevermind about when she swallows and wants to kiss afterwards, cause women know better.

I sometimes wonder what is happening to the very fabric of relationships and marriage. I just read in a book where the author stated that one of satans agendas is to destroy relationships and the institution of marriage.


And with the large number of homosexuals in the porn industry I think the very act is gay.
 

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There is nothing wrong with it and quite frankly some women need it.

Just make sure she doesn't fall asleep after without cleaning her face off. One girl I know had a problem opening her eye lid in the morning.


but you are right about it being an indicator of her sexual past. One slu-t I know asked me if I wanted to fu-ck her in the ass and come on her face . I was shocked at this. There are some girls who want you to do it.
 

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i personally enjoy squirting on their tits, if you aim for the face and it gets in their hair they do nothing but complain about it. You should have used the word *** dumpster in you post, you definately could have fit it in there.
 

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they do that in porno cus you can't film the guy doing it inside her and they need some finale for the 45 minute long romp fest
 

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Yo id like to give every woman not related to me on this planet a gigantic spraying to the face with my flesh super soaker.
 

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Originally posted by thefonz
they do that in porno cus you can't film the guy doing it inside her and they need some finale for the 45 minute long romp fest
My favorite answer.

Moved to Anything Else...
 

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MrHarris, if you have that big of a problem with your own ***, maybe you should just get a vasectomy. I mean, what's the point in cumming in a ***** you've previously filled; that's just gay!
 

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Yea when the girl wants the butt then a big finish on the face I know im dealing with a serious slut nugget. The facial is nice too because its easier to see how nice of a load you have made. The good ones will wipe it off their faces and suck it off their fingers(total *** guzzlers) LOL.

Dont forget the ones who will take the condom off and wring it out into their mouths. Those are the filthyest ones.

Is it degrading? Kinda but its not like I hold their face with two hands while they struggle to escape. LOL They always giggle and laugh afterwards every time ive given one. The young chicks these days will do anything to please(18-20years).
 

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Originally posted by torqueboxer
Yea when the girl wants the butt then a big finish on the face I know im dealing with a serious slut nugget. The facial is nice too because its easier to see how nice of a load you have made. The good ones will wipe it off their faces and suck it off their fingers(total *** guzzlers) LOL.

Dont forget the ones who will take the condom off and wring it out into their mouths. Those are the filthyest ones.

Is it degrading? Kinda but its not like I hold their face with two hands while they struggle to escape. LOL They always giggle and laugh afterwards every time ive given one. The young chicks these days will do anything to please(18-20years).
Alright looks like someone is living in porno fantasy 24/7. If not, get help, SERIOUSLY.
 

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All I know is if a b1tch sucks me off and I happen to orgasm which is rare in her mouth, that is very cool. Only a few women are into the semen on face and they're cool with it - there's a website called wifeys world or something where her husband does just that. she doesn't bang anyone but her husband.

to me she is an attention h0, she gets plenty of horny men looking at her and jacking off at her, but the only guy that she is willing to do this with is her husband. She also has huge azz tits, wish she were my wife... nice body, alright face, and huge honkers.. and she swallows too which is a big bonus.

she seems loyal so far, which is awesome.. man some people.
 

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I agree that it's a sign of domination.

I've also talked about this once or twice with my friends, and we all agreed that c*mming on a girl's face is an act of disrespect, which is okay if you don't respect the girl in the first place, but shouldn't be done to someone who has value to your eyes.
 

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stuff like that my gurl would neve ever let me do, she doesnt eve n go down on me until i ***, all the times that she has blowed me i have never ***, i had a girl that did everyyyyything even swallow, that was the best sex i ever had in my life.
 

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Originally posted by bfl
stuff like that my gurl would neve ever let me do, she doesnt eve n go down on me until i ***, all the times that she has blowed me i have never ***, i had a girl that did everyyyyything even swallow, that was the best sex i ever had in my life.
lol.. okay...
 

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Hey man, I noticed the same thing. I'll only want to come on her if I don't like her at the time (she's been mean or b!tchy the last couple of days), except I don't want to come on her face, I want to come on her chest. I do agree it is degrading to women and sort of a domination thing. I like your arguement man, good stuff.
 

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I dont see *** as a bodily waste. I mean if it doesnt serve its biolgical purpose its just unused ***, nothing more nothing less. There is no waste or anything of that matter in ***, while of course in **** and piss there is. I dont see anything wrong with it if the girl is cool with it, or if shes slutty and you dont particularly care much about her.
 

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Not a big fan of the facial.

I'd rather bust a nut on her rack, her ass or her stomach.
 

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No, I don't feel degraded at all when I bust a fat nut in some bittch's eyes.
 
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