Ok this new girl I'm seeing started doing salsa and went to a salsa club on NY eve. Not a salsa class, a salsa club.
I dated her for a bit and raised some attraction in her but not enough for her to only think of me. I presented her with flowers on NY eve to make up for my mistakes and she texted me at 11.40pm. She clearly wanted me to be there with her at midnight but I could not make it. She obviously didn't want to be alone on NY eve and since these latin lover types prey on women like this I feel dejected.
I saw her yesterday all made up red lipstick and everything, she never wears red lipstick, so clearly she had a date earlier in the day and was looking to impress someone. She was also dressed rather nice too. I asked her about the red lipstick if it was for a special occasion, she looked down and said 'no', that tells it all.
I don't mean to sound insecure but I'm threatened by this because at the moment all my hard work is going down the drain, my value is dropping cos im coming across as insecure and clingy and needy.
I need to damage control and not see her for a few days. We have a date set up for friday cos she has exams this week.
To you experience DJs how do you compete with something like this?
Can I really lock her in with just conversation alone? THat's all I have with her, and is what she's attracted to with me. I have history with her and she's put in a bit of emotional investment which maybe suggests why she comes back to me to give me another chance this is the 2nd time she's come back.
It's like it'll be a decision between her having a relationship with me and a sexually charged passionate fling with this guy. I dont care how much game you have how on earth are you suppose to compete with this?
Is it too late for me to become a challenge to her?
I dated her for a bit and raised some attraction in her but not enough for her to only think of me. I presented her with flowers on NY eve to make up for my mistakes and she texted me at 11.40pm. She clearly wanted me to be there with her at midnight but I could not make it. She obviously didn't want to be alone on NY eve and since these latin lover types prey on women like this I feel dejected.
I saw her yesterday all made up red lipstick and everything, she never wears red lipstick, so clearly she had a date earlier in the day and was looking to impress someone. She was also dressed rather nice too. I asked her about the red lipstick if it was for a special occasion, she looked down and said 'no', that tells it all.
I don't mean to sound insecure but I'm threatened by this because at the moment all my hard work is going down the drain, my value is dropping cos im coming across as insecure and clingy and needy.
I need to damage control and not see her for a few days. We have a date set up for friday cos she has exams this week.
To you experience DJs how do you compete with something like this?
Can I really lock her in with just conversation alone? THat's all I have with her, and is what she's attracted to with me. I have history with her and she's put in a bit of emotional investment which maybe suggests why she comes back to me to give me another chance this is the 2nd time she's come back.
It's like it'll be a decision between her having a relationship with me and a sexually charged passionate fling with this guy. I dont care how much game you have how on earth are you suppose to compete with this?
Is it too late for me to become a challenge to her?