I have a question I fully dont understand about my self
My ex g/f (broke up about 1 year ago) and I had a really fun and seemingly great relationship (until she moved away)
we used to talk on the fone for hours, laugh, and all that great relationship blah blah
but even today, every song, item in a store, anything reminds me of her, and I miss our friendship (I accept the relationship is over due to our distance, but I really like her as a friend)
maybe Im just too sentimental. Even tho I call, email etc, she seems to have lost any interest in me as a person, and never returns my calls, emails.
my question is, even if you have a good friendship with a guy/gal, once the relationship has ended, why does the girl seem to think the friendship has ended also?
Maybe she is just a cold hearted byatch with no sense of sentimentality, or maybe Im stuck in oneitus?
I really dont want anything more from this woman, than her friendship that we had
but it seems like I made more of it, than she did
Ive had ex g/f's in the past that I reconnected with that always said "You know how hard it was not to call you? I just thought it was awkward"
are there just some girls who erase you from memory once a relationship ends? and why do some people (me) cling on to these friendships, while the other person clearly doesnt care?
any thoughts wouklld be appreciated.
My ex g/f (broke up about 1 year ago) and I had a really fun and seemingly great relationship (until she moved away)
we used to talk on the fone for hours, laugh, and all that great relationship blah blah
but even today, every song, item in a store, anything reminds me of her, and I miss our friendship (I accept the relationship is over due to our distance, but I really like her as a friend)
maybe Im just too sentimental. Even tho I call, email etc, she seems to have lost any interest in me as a person, and never returns my calls, emails.
my question is, even if you have a good friendship with a guy/gal, once the relationship has ended, why does the girl seem to think the friendship has ended also?
Maybe she is just a cold hearted byatch with no sense of sentimentality, or maybe Im stuck in oneitus?
I really dont want anything more from this woman, than her friendship that we had
but it seems like I made more of it, than she did
Ive had ex g/f's in the past that I reconnected with that always said "You know how hard it was not to call you? I just thought it was awkward"
are there just some girls who erase you from memory once a relationship ends? and why do some people (me) cling on to these friendships, while the other person clearly doesnt care?
any thoughts wouklld be appreciated.