There is a very gorgeous woman who is working with me, every single guy I see are trying to hit on her, talk to her and what not. When they come by me they say comments like "I want to bang the sh!t out of her!" blah blah. I'm trying to win this girl over. I introduced myself to her, tried to find common ground and broke the ice. She made me guess her age and said "Be careful..." Luckily, I guessed it correctly. When she said she has a dog and when she showed a picture of it to me I just told her cute and I want a husky myself, and she went off talking about dogs to me smiling. Now I want to stay away from her as much as possible. Am I doing the right thing??? I'm just not sure on how I would need to make my move and be the one that she 'chooses'. I just hate that every guy talks to her and I don't want to be that same guy. I'm trying to be different. The only thing that concerns me is my co-workers telling me I'm stupid because I am not talking to her as much because I won't get sh!t and won't be successful.
I told them that by me talking to her I made her day and I'm the prize to be won, and he said "Yeah keep thinking that. You THINK you made her day, but in her eyes, when she goes and bangs another guy, now who's day do you think was made... Yours or the guy she banged?" They keep telling me that I think to highly of myself and it will cost me. Any advice on ideally what I should do?
I told them that by me talking to her I made her day and I'm the prize to be won, and he said "Yeah keep thinking that. You THINK you made her day, but in her eyes, when she goes and bangs another guy, now who's day do you think was made... Yours or the guy she banged?" They keep telling me that I think to highly of myself and it will cost me. Any advice on ideally what I should do?