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Ever accidently hit on the same girl twice?

whosthat

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Well i did to two diff girls now, dam i know.

first off i met a girl in a store over a year ago got her number and had a coffee date with her, nothing evolved from it. so more then a year later i saw a hot girl at school and go up and say hi and ask her name , as soon as she told me her name i barely recognized the name with the face, i was like oh wow hold on have i met you before, she was like um im not sure, asked her out then anyway but said she had a man, later i thought about her name, voice and face more and realized that defiantly was her, and felt pretty stupid about it, and i bet she new and was just being nice maybe, the deal is she kind has a generic look avg hot girl with dark brown hair u know theres lots of them so my brain just didnt quite register her face at the time, it had been a little while but still surprising to me since we went on a date actaully.

couple months later , next a diff girl that sat next to me at school i sparked some convo with for a while and didnt get the number thoe, approx more then 6mnths later i see a hot girl at the gym from a distance so not a sure shot at her face, but when she got off the machine i darted over there and when i faced her and began to speak, instead of hi, i was like oh(same **** i said before) and she was like well if you dont rember thats kinda of sad, and i was like i think i did but not for sure, she was like ya at school while back, so we walked off. she had the same generic look thoe, and thats the look i like and talk to the most, so i guess a few are starting to look alike

i felt stupid about the first one, but now im like ah whatever i guess this can just happen, its a small world u know and its not like i have a perfect picture memory of every chick i try talking to, i guess im just surprised at myself for it since they both happened recently, wondering if this has happened to any of yall and yalls opionions on it
 

BigSmooth

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Never happened to me before, but I do often forget names and faces. It's a wonder I haven't done this myself.

As for dealing with it AT that present moment, I would just try to make light of the situation and use some humor as to why you tried to hit on her again.

"Hey I can't help it! There's definitely something about you...it's either your lovely smile...or your gorgeous eyebrows. Actually, it's definitely the eyebrows."

Now, as long as she isn't a psycho b!tch who has no sense of humor, she'll probably be a little surprised as she was probably expecting you to stutter and run your a$s out of there, so she'll probably lighten up a little bit too.

Then you can follow up with something along the lines of: "Well if you can attract me to approach you TWICE, you must be doing something right."
 

juicywa

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haha I did this, same girl (I wanna say 1 year difference).. and I also used the same dumb conversational line .. no wonder she had the "oh, this again" look.

Cant help but laugh afterwards.
 

whosthat

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dam yall i saw a girl in the gym today and wasnt sure if i talked to her before so i hesitated and she ended up walking away while i was still thinking about it, i hope i havent developed a some kind of fear for this, what do yall think i should think about this
 

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Yup twice that I can remember happening in the past few months, 1 girl at a bar I was talking to for a bit and she said her name was Selena I said "selena with an s? my names steve, guess we already have something in common" cheesy line i know she told me "thats the same line you told me last time we met" saw her again couple months later almost made the same mistake for a third time haha

Another time on pof I dropped a line I was sending to a lot of girls I said "are you one of those girls who takes forever to do their hair and makeup or does it just look that way?" girl messaged back "steve?" I told her "i was a little creeped out and i didn't remember her" she told me she met me at the local bar before, I said cool what are you doing tonight got her number texted her and she said she was with her friend and they wanted to party so i phoned up my wingman got him over and showed him the picture to my horror it was the same girl that I was fooling around with the other weekend and lets just say she was a 5 at best in person NEVER TRUST POF buddy had already ****ed her a few months back and I ****ed her friend so I wanted no more.
 

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wataf said:
Yup twice that I can remember happening in the past few months, 1 girl at a bar I was talking to for a bit and she said her name was Selena I said "selena with an s? my names steve, guess we already have something in common" cheesy line i know she told me "thats the same line you told me last time we met" saw her again couple months later almost made the same mistake for a third time haha

Another time on pof I dropped a line I was sending to a lot of girls I said "are you one of those girls who takes forever to do their hair and makeup or does it just look that way?" girl messaged back "steve?" I told her "i was a little creeped out and i didn't remember her" she told me she met me at the local bar before, I said cool what are you doing tonight got her number texted her and she said she was with her friend and they wanted to party so i phoned up my wingman got him over and showed him the picture to my horror it was the same girl that I was fooling around with the other weekend and lets just say she was a 5 at best in person NEVER TRUST POF buddy had already ****ed her a few months back and I ****ed her friend so I wanted no more.

ya its funny you say that, cuz i can picture myself probobly trying for a 3rd time somewhere down the road and not catch it
 
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