Escorts: Couldn't do it

[badboyjmm]

Sorry for the rambling in advance. I almost got myself the services of an escort and I stopped myself. I mean I haven't been with a chick in a while and it's starting to really affect me. Like being able to be around a chick that you know she's attracted and will jump on your d!ck.

So I started messaging some escorts (all very good looking) but I couldn't get into the idea that I have to pay to obtain it. Plus that the girl will have to fake being pleased and all. Instead I went to the casino and made money.

It probably just growing pains since I've been going to the gym for an month and a half. Lost some weight and I have a much better posture. However, I think that the solution is to cold approach but I would love to know how did you guys start it. I tend to overthink the approach and end up not doing it. I want to be able to spin plate but I don't have one !

OLD has been dead to me and my social circle is very limited, so any quick pointers so I can start approaching chicks during the day will be appreciated.

 

[Lozboss]

Does Tinder work for you? Might be a good way of getting lots of plates fast.

Cold approach is about starting- often people start by just going up to people.

I would suggest you read Mark Mansons: Models. He has a guide in there.

 

[Revok]

Lol well no one is forcing you either, if you feel uncomfortable calling an escort its all good.

There is nothing magical about it honest sometimes it clicks but other time you will waste your money.

I stop calling escorts last time they send me this girl she was from Dominican Republic she smelled so bad, i had paid the extra to get the GFE girl friend experience and she was acting all robotic with me, giving me a condom BJ and that smell i start banging her doggiestyle and she smelled so bad from her ****.

I stop told her get dress and get out of my condo. Called her agency and complain they told me next time i order they would give me a rebate.

I did call a few that i saw after without paying. But even then theses women are the bottom feeders, they don't respect themselves, and they will have sex with anyone who got the money.

Actually i really don't plan on calling out any more escorts, after a while it gets expensive and since all the regular girls that gave great service seem to be gone i am afraid of the new girls giving bad service.

Yankit the mental masturbating clown complains about the women he's dated then comes out with his big revelation that he's been paying escorts for a girlfriend experience and is shocked that they are bottom feeders who will have sex with other men for money. :flowers: :crackup:

Save up to have your own life-like sexbot built yankit the clown then you'll at least never have to worry about it cheating on you. Just make sure you can adjust it's IQ down to a houseplant to match yours. :crackup:

 

[badboyjmm]

Does Tinder work for you? Might be a good way of getting lots of plates fast.

Cold approach is about starting- often people start by just going up to people.

I would suggest you read Mark Mansons: Models. He has a guide in there.

Tinder was interesting, I had close to 12 matches but none were replying. So I decided to delete it, make more gains at the gym, then go back in there.
I've meet 3 chicks from there but no bang. My thing is the nightlife, but it either too crowed (by 11 last night there was a huge line of people waiting while it was raining) or girls are not very social.

In a few months, I will get back on Tinder, create a pretty straight-forward profile and show-off my gains at the gym.I definitely check out Mark Mansons: Models

I will try to force myself for approaches. I work at a University and there's plenty girls to practice on.


@yannick43
Hehe I never said somebody forced me. It just the fact that for me, paying for something that I manage to obtain frequently in the past was out of the question. The way I see it (reading your experience with them and others on different forums) it like paying for a surprise box and you don't know if you will like what you get.

Don't get me wrong, it the same thing if I'm dating a girl but at least it won't be a double whammy if things go sour

@Revok
I don't knock people that uses escorts but you are right, I don't understand why you would pay for GFE if that experience that you are seeking is from someone your truly care about (a girlfriend to be or a girlfriend). Also I got scared that I would like it so much that I would simply stop looking to improve myself with girls and just pay.

Thanks for the replies bros,

 

[Revok]

@yannick43
Hehe I never said somebody forced me. It just the fact that for me, paying for something that I manage to obtain frequently in the past was out of the question. The way I see it (reading your experience with them and others on different forums) it like paying for a surprise box and you don't know if you will like what you get.

Don't get me wrong, it the same thing if I'm dating a girl but at least it won't be a double whammy if things go sour

Your right about that, after reading the myth of the lonely man and the book the rational male my opinion on women changed completely. Combine this with the girl i dated, the one nighters when i was pro wrestling and my 2 LTR losing both houses and ending up in separation, my opinion on women is not that high anymore.

Some a$$ holes even go as far as saying i failed with women hahahha when they probably never got some, or so many has i did when i was younger.

I went online and failed, with below average women so for me online is the worst place to meet women and for my age 43 i don't look half as bad.

A few people on here ordered escorts and they got sucked in thinking that these women loved them or what ever, i now understand women psychology and there manipulation toward men, but the escorts they are the worst bytch in town.

I cannot believe Revoke is not banned yet this idiot keeps on ticking and ticking he has no source of pleasure in is life and he comes on here with is stupid replies and fake persona. Maybe he should ask is mommy for money to order an escort and lose is virginity....................

Yankit thought escorts loved him. And his "advice" is for others to order one to lose their virginity. LMAO. Poor Yankit. Once a beta always a beta.

 

[Alexandar]

is it just me, or is every one of yannick's posts about the exact same sh! t that he recycles and then goes on about over and over and over and.....

like, i could seriously probably recite his life story off by heart. and that gives me a headache.

can you please tell us ONE more time about what a failure you are at online dating? can i hear ONE more time about how the ugliest women there flatly rejected you ? because i dont think posting it in every thread in every post was enough.

i cant blame you for being a regular with the nasty stinky disgusting pathetic puke-inducing piss-covered garbage escorts you constantly ordered, because you admit yourself you cant get a girl to save your life (and apparently now you dont want to cuz women "bring you nothing") yea, so THATS why you dont want to.

makes me so sick...

theres beta, and then, theres yannick.

 

[Revok]

is it just me, or is every one of yannick's posts about the exact same sh! t that he recycles and then goes on about over and over and over and.....

like, i could seriously probably recite his life story off by heart. and that gives me a headache.

can you please tell us ONE more time about what a failure you are at online dating? can i hear ONE more time about how the ugliest women there flatly rejected you ? because i dont think posting it in every thread in every post was enough.

i cant blame you for being a regular with the nasty stinky disgusting pathetic puke-inducing piss-covered garbage escorts you constantly ordered, because you admit yourself you cant get a girl to save your life (and apparently now you dont want to cuz women "bring you nothing") yea, so THATS why you dont want to.

makes me so sick...

theres beta, and then, theres yannick.

Good post. Waaaaa-nick43 will respond shortly with his same beta frustrations claiming everyone else needs to "wake up" while he gets ready to cuddle up to another "Poon King" post and fall sound asleep in miserable content projecting his loserdome elsewhere.

 

[loco]

If you made money at the casino,then a good time for free(because you won the money) with an escort who does not cause you a headache is perfectly fine to indulge in,even the president's had their hoes.

 

[KimboSlice]

@yannick43
Hehe I never said somebody forced me. It just the fact that for me, paying for something that I manage to obtain frequently in the past was out of the question. The way I see it (reading your experience with them and others on different forums) it like paying for a surprise box and you don't know if you will like what you get.

Don't get me wrong, it the same thing if I'm dating a girl but at least it won't be a double whammy if things go sour

Your right about that, after reading the myth of the lonely man and the book the rational male my opinion on women changed completely. Combine this with the girl i dated, the one nighters when i was pro wrestling and my 2 LTR losing both houses and ending up in separation, my opinion on women is not that high anymore.

Some a$$ holes even go as far as saying i failed with women hahahha when they probably never got some, or so many has i did when i was younger.

I went online and failed, with below average women so for me online is the worst place to meet women and for my age 43 i don't look half as bad.

A few people on here ordered escorts and they got sucked in thinking that these women loved them or what ever, i now understand women psychology and there manipulation toward men, but the escorts they are the worst bytch in town.

I cannot believe Revoke is not banned yet this idiot keeps on ticking and ticking he has no source of pleasure in is life and he comes on here with is stupid replies and fake persona. Maybe he should ask is mommy for money to order an escort and lose is virginity....................

Yank-it would prefer to play a tune on poof queens piss whistle.

 

[backbreaker]

you know what's relly funny. if you are a black man, you really can't even pay for a good escort. a good portion of them won't deal with you from jump street. without going the 1000 dollar an hour route and jumping through a ton of hoops

 

[Solomon]

Damn things must be really bad if Escorts now are openly discuss on Sosuave regularly...quite a shame

 

[Firestar786]

fvck escorts.

total waste of money.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Damn things must be really bad if Escorts now are openly discuss on Sosuave regularly...quite a shame

Agreed and some dudes actually strong proponents of trickin' on this board.

 

[Tictac]

Sorry for the rambling in advance. I almost got myself the services of an escort and I stopped myself. I mean I haven't been with a chick in a while and it's starting to really affect me. Like being able to be around a chick that you know she's attracted and will jump on your d!ck.

So I started messaging some escorts (all very good looking) but I couldn't get into the idea that I have to pay to obtain it. Plus that the girl will have to fake being pleased and all. Instead I went to the casino and made money.

It probably just growing pains since I've been going to the gym for an month and a half. Lost some weight and I have a much better posture. However, I think that the solution is to cold approach but I would love to know how did you guys start it. I tend to overthink the approach and end up not doing it. I want to be able to spin plate but I don't have one !
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You got closer than I ever have. The thought of sex as a business deal just doesn't work in my head.

As for cold approaches, it's just talking to people. You can practice everywhere. Unless you're walking up cold and asking for a bl*wjob, don't worry about it.

 

[DragonBlood]

I couldn't get into the idea that I have to pay to obtain it (sex)

Why not?

I stay away from escorts because its illegal , but other than that I certainly dont judge the woman or her job. As along as shes clean and easy to get on with its good. A relationship and an escort are not the same thing. You are comparing a steak house to mcdonalds. Enjoy it for what it is and relax. Like most "feel good" substances though (alcohol, smoke, drugs) dont let the new experience consume you and actually prevent you from finding your own girl.

 

[badboyjmm]

you know what's relly funny. if you are a black man, you really can't even pay for a good escort. a good portion of them won't deal with you from jump street. without going the 1000 dollar an hour route and jumping through a ton of hoops

Yeah, I realize that a lot of escorts are not down with the black man. Oh well I don't care since I will never try to get an escorts. It is indeed a waste of money in my opinion (especially when you can hit the field)

Why not?

I stay away from escorts because its illegal , but other than that I certainly dont judge the woman or her job. As along as shes clean and easy to get on with its good. A relationship and an escort are not the same thing. You are comparing a steak house to mcdonalds. Enjoy it for what it is and relax. Like most "feel good" substances though (alcohol, smoke, drugs) dont let the new experience consume you and actually prevent you from finding your own girl.

I'm definitely not judging a girl for obtaining her money. It's just that I couldn't go through with it since I thought it was weird for me to pay when I manage in the past to have girls. So in the end, I'm glad I didn't go through it because I'm pretty sure it would kill any motivation to get better at game.

 

[prison/con.net]

For 20k per year, you can live in the Phills and have all the cute young girls that you want. In fact, they'll fight over you.

 

[old married dude]

fvck escorts.

total waste of money.

For real! Why pay for something that should be free?

 

[corrector]

Why not?

I stay away from escorts because its illegal , but other than that I certainly dont judge the woman or her job. As along as shes clean and easy to get on with its good. A relationship and an escort are not the same thing. You are comparing a steak house to mcdonalds. Enjoy it for what it is and relax. Like most "feel good" substances though (alcohol, smoke, drugs) dont let the new experience consume you and actually prevent you from finding your own girl.

If you have never been with one because it's illegal then how could you give advice like that?

This is not a "feel good" substance. It's more like a priestess of succubus.

 

[corrector]

Yeah, I realize that a lot of escorts are not down with the black man. Oh well I don't care since I will never try to get an escorts. It is indeed a waste of money in my opinion (especially when you can hit the field)

How would you know it's a waste of money if you never tried one? You would not understand how much damage money can do to yourself. You may not see money the same way again.

I'm definitely not judging a girl for obtaining her money. It's just that I couldn't go through with it since I thought it was weird for me to pay when I manage in the past to have girls. So in the end, I'm glad I didn't go through it because I'm pretty sure it would kill any motivation to get better at game.

I would judge a girl for obtaining money that way because it's not normal, and a woman who has standards wouldn't open herself up to strangers. It's not really about the money, it's about what is driving her to do that.

The attitude you have about paying for it is simply the wrong one to have. The way I would see it is that the woman is being paid to please you, and there is no surprises beyond that exchange apart from that dynamic. There is theoretically suppose to be no baggage out of the encounter itself and you can just go off to another escort, etc...

When I went with an escort, as soon as I hugged her naked body, I forgot about the money and was just happy I was with her. You get overwhelmed and forget about the money rather quickly.

This would help with motivation to get better at game on two fronts. First of all, you have female contact with escorts and attention. That feminine energy in and of itself rubs off as an indirect social proof so any other woman can see that you've dealt with another woman. You lose the "neediness".

The fact is it's not about money. It's about their demons and the evil mastermind involved in how that escort came to be an escort and your role in using her for your own selfish pleasure, and staying away from them to avoid a potential demonic attack.