Disclaimer: this is my first DR ever and it is not about success, but I would very much appreciate your opinions and answers to my questions.
Well, it is a girl from my school who just turned 16. I am 17. We actually first started talking on the Internet about half a year ago and had a "date" then, too. We just met in the centre of the town and walk around and sitted in the park for a while. There was complete silence numerous times, I was afraid to make EC etc. That date was really-really bad as I was dead-tired and had not read any SoSuave or any books at all, so I was a real AFC. I did everything that is possible to do wrong.
She has a HB9.5 face and HB8.5 body and I really do not think there is a girl in my school who is prettier than she is. She does not have too many guys hitting on her, though, because as she is pretty young and has strict parents, she rarely goes out a nights and she is a very shy girl anyway. I really messed up the first time with her, but as she is SOOO indescribably hot, I decided to give it another try.
So I told her that I wanted to see her on Friday (today) and she instantly agreed. I had planned to take her ice-skating for some nice kino and after that probably eat something and then just try to isolate her - sit on a park bench and run some routines on her (Trust Test, Tension Test, Evolution Phase Shift etc) and kiss-close.
It did not go as was planned, though. Firstly, the whole skating-rink was closed today so I had to take her to a restaurant. Both of us just ordered a tea and we had some nice talk. I managed to neg her a bit, did some C&F etc. Soon we left the place and went to the mall as I said I wanted to buy something beautiful for myself. We jokingly checked out some gay pink T-Shirts and ties for me. Soon the mall was closed, though, and we made a deal that I would buy her some clothes and she will buy some for me and we have to wear those clothes at school on Monday.
We headed to another restaurant/cafe and had another drink (just some juice). I made her laugh a few times a managed to neg and C&F again. She talked about her strict grandma a lot (who lives with her family) and how the grandma always whines about everything and never lets her do anything. I just made fun of it and pretty much laughed. At this restaurant there was some silence for a short while, though..
Soon we left that one, too and I really wanted to run those routines at last to do some kino etc. It was quite impossible to run kino at the cafe when she was sitting across the table. It had rained a lot before, though, and all the benches were wet - we could not sit anywhere. I managed to run the trust test, though, which she failed at first, but really wanted to know why, so I let her take the test again and this time she passed. But, well, I squeezed her hands very softly the first time anyway. It was pretty late and she had to go home so she took the bus home soon.
Pretty much the whole kino during the date was a short hug when we met, the trust test and a short hug when she left. This is by any means not an one-itis, but I have to say that I still like her a lot. I want to at least kiss-close her and it seems she could even be possible LTR material. A girl like her is a great social proof, too. I saw some friends during the date and I talked a few words with some of them and all of them had a facial expression of like "Wooow, nice.. respect, man
".
I still want to go ice-skating with her and she also wants to see my dogs, so I could invite her to my place. What should I do first and when? If today's date would have gone better, I would not ask anything - it could do everything just naturally, but now I have to be really careful, because I think I did not make a great expression of myself again. I would really like to see how far I am able to get with that girl. And about buying clothes to each other - it was pretty much a joke, but maybe I still should get her something and if she did not get me anything, bust on her about it? What should I get her? Something nasty?
I am sorry about such a long post. I am very glad and thankful if someone took the time to read it and reply.
ASD
Well, it is a girl from my school who just turned 16. I am 17. We actually first started talking on the Internet about half a year ago and had a "date" then, too. We just met in the centre of the town and walk around and sitted in the park for a while. There was complete silence numerous times, I was afraid to make EC etc. That date was really-really bad as I was dead-tired and had not read any SoSuave or any books at all, so I was a real AFC. I did everything that is possible to do wrong.
She has a HB9.5 face and HB8.5 body and I really do not think there is a girl in my school who is prettier than she is. She does not have too many guys hitting on her, though, because as she is pretty young and has strict parents, she rarely goes out a nights and she is a very shy girl anyway. I really messed up the first time with her, but as she is SOOO indescribably hot, I decided to give it another try.
So I told her that I wanted to see her on Friday (today) and she instantly agreed. I had planned to take her ice-skating for some nice kino and after that probably eat something and then just try to isolate her - sit on a park bench and run some routines on her (Trust Test, Tension Test, Evolution Phase Shift etc) and kiss-close.
It did not go as was planned, though. Firstly, the whole skating-rink was closed today so I had to take her to a restaurant. Both of us just ordered a tea and we had some nice talk. I managed to neg her a bit, did some C&F etc. Soon we left the place and went to the mall as I said I wanted to buy something beautiful for myself. We jokingly checked out some gay pink T-Shirts and ties for me. Soon the mall was closed, though, and we made a deal that I would buy her some clothes and she will buy some for me and we have to wear those clothes at school on Monday.
We headed to another restaurant/cafe and had another drink (just some juice). I made her laugh a few times a managed to neg and C&F again. She talked about her strict grandma a lot (who lives with her family) and how the grandma always whines about everything and never lets her do anything. I just made fun of it and pretty much laughed. At this restaurant there was some silence for a short while, though..
Soon we left that one, too and I really wanted to run those routines at last to do some kino etc. It was quite impossible to run kino at the cafe when she was sitting across the table. It had rained a lot before, though, and all the benches were wet - we could not sit anywhere. I managed to run the trust test, though, which she failed at first, but really wanted to know why, so I let her take the test again and this time she passed. But, well, I squeezed her hands very softly the first time anyway. It was pretty late and she had to go home so she took the bus home soon.
Pretty much the whole kino during the date was a short hug when we met, the trust test and a short hug when she left. This is by any means not an one-itis, but I have to say that I still like her a lot. I want to at least kiss-close her and it seems she could even be possible LTR material. A girl like her is a great social proof, too. I saw some friends during the date and I talked a few words with some of them and all of them had a facial expression of like "Wooow, nice.. respect, man
".I still want to go ice-skating with her and she also wants to see my dogs, so I could invite her to my place. What should I do first and when? If today's date would have gone better, I would not ask anything - it could do everything just naturally, but now I have to be really careful, because I think I did not make a great expression of myself again. I would really like to see how far I am able to get with that girl. And about buying clothes to each other - it was pretty much a joke, but maybe I still should get her something and if she did not get me anything, bust on her about it? What should I get her? Something nasty?
I am sorry about such a long post. I am very glad and thankful if someone took the time to read it and reply.
ASD
