Alright guys I had an epiphany today although it came at a price. I realized today that all this cr@p about getting women is related to everything else in your life, including your career, your finances, your health, overall happiness, everything, but ALL OF THOSE PARTS OF YOUR LIFE REVOLVE AROUND HAVING SOME B@LLS.
Honestly, some people sit here and overanalyze everything (I did too, so please feel free to call me out on this if you'd like) and are thinking "Oh what kind of neg hit should I use", or "Oh what should I think to fix my inner game", "What about my kino...", "Should I call after 2 or 3 days..." the list goes on.
This is all absurd, this cr@p like everything else all boils down to if you've got the b@lls to take what you want, that's it and it's as simple as that. You want a sweet job? Go out, educate yourself, take the necissary steps and then display your UNTOUCHABLE CONFIDENCE and do WHAT IT TAKES to get that job, and don't settle for anything else. You see that hottie in the corner? Are you going to be a wimp like most people and think about what you're going to say or are you going to grab your nuts and just take what you deserve?
I had a lady call me about an AMAZING opportunity for an entry-level sales job a couple of days ago. I was going to wait for the next day to call her so I could brush up a little more on the company and know what I'm talking about, but my overbearing father basically put me on the spot and made me call her. The result? I was nervous during the entire phone interview, and she emails me back saying that they gave it to someone who had been interviewing for a couple of weeks (aka I probably sounded too wimpy on the phone). And by the way if you can't see how that example applies to dealing with women then at least in my opinion you haven't even scratched the surface of pickup (and I obviously haven't either since I let that happen).
Now the point of all of this is, is you see some guys who walk around all day, have a nice car, HB 9 gf, awesome pad, and people say to themselves "oh he's so lucky". BULL! The dude had the integrity to go out and make his dreams come true, 99% of people in the world don't because they come up with bs for why they can't, or they can't accept success into their life/are afraid to.
The point is, if you've got a spine, you'll go up to the HB 9 and you'll be persistent and committed to getting her or someone of better quality (not cause you need her but cause you deserve her/better than her), and if you don't get her you won't care because you've got the spine to go out and meet someone better anyways, and are determined to make it happen. And if you want that job when you go in for the interview you'll go in as if theres no tomorrow and make it happen. It all comes down to whose gonna go out and make it happen.
And now that I've posted this feel free to knock me for being a b!tch myself because I'm obviously not there either. :kick:
Honestly, some people sit here and overanalyze everything (I did too, so please feel free to call me out on this if you'd like) and are thinking "Oh what kind of neg hit should I use", or "Oh what should I think to fix my inner game", "What about my kino...", "Should I call after 2 or 3 days..." the list goes on.
This is all absurd, this cr@p like everything else all boils down to if you've got the b@lls to take what you want, that's it and it's as simple as that. You want a sweet job? Go out, educate yourself, take the necissary steps and then display your UNTOUCHABLE CONFIDENCE and do WHAT IT TAKES to get that job, and don't settle for anything else. You see that hottie in the corner? Are you going to be a wimp like most people and think about what you're going to say or are you going to grab your nuts and just take what you deserve?
I had a lady call me about an AMAZING opportunity for an entry-level sales job a couple of days ago. I was going to wait for the next day to call her so I could brush up a little more on the company and know what I'm talking about, but my overbearing father basically put me on the spot and made me call her. The result? I was nervous during the entire phone interview, and she emails me back saying that they gave it to someone who had been interviewing for a couple of weeks (aka I probably sounded too wimpy on the phone). And by the way if you can't see how that example applies to dealing with women then at least in my opinion you haven't even scratched the surface of pickup (and I obviously haven't either since I let that happen).
Now the point of all of this is, is you see some guys who walk around all day, have a nice car, HB 9 gf, awesome pad, and people say to themselves "oh he's so lucky". BULL! The dude had the integrity to go out and make his dreams come true, 99% of people in the world don't because they come up with bs for why they can't, or they can't accept success into their life/are afraid to.
The point is, if you've got a spine, you'll go up to the HB 9 and you'll be persistent and committed to getting her or someone of better quality (not cause you need her but cause you deserve her/better than her), and if you don't get her you won't care because you've got the spine to go out and meet someone better anyways, and are determined to make it happen. And if you want that job when you go in for the interview you'll go in as if theres no tomorrow and make it happen. It all comes down to whose gonna go out and make it happen.
And now that I've posted this feel free to knock me for being a b!tch myself because I'm obviously not there either. :kick:
