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I was victim to my ex's emotional explosions as well."Men have gotten the point that it's not OK to do those things, but somehow it's turned around, and it's OK for women to do those things," LeClerc said.
gixxer said:I need to understand what the personality disorders of this type of woman are. I realize now that she had a very controlling hold on me by keeping me jealous and off balance. I also realize she created a lot of conflict between me and her friends. She was also emotionally abusive at times. At other times she was like a dream come true - sweet, understanding, loving, giving....
Any hints or search words that I can use to find articles on this type of woman and this type of relationship dynamic would be appreciated.
Thanks!
gixx
Good luck telling a BPD woman that. One of those plates will end up aimed at your head. My ex sent a bystander to the hospital for stitches after she flung a pair of side cutters at someone else. My best friend can recall the time when she threw a bowl of hot soup at him.When women start throwing thing and breaking dishes, you simply and calmly say: "Great. Now you've got a mess to clean up."
Nope, they don't. That being said, however...if you ARE dealing with someone with BPD or who is bipolar you can't deal with it the way you would someone who doesn't have it. You can reason with a person without these conditions and de-escalate the situation. But someone with the conditions...you will only aggravate the situation. I think that's what Des is trying to say here.Vulpine said:Disclaimer.... read the disclaimer....
Not everyone that "flips their lid", has a fit of rage, or loses control has BPD or dysfuntional personality.