Hi,
let us discuss the value of building up your confidence with women step by step. I am a guy who is very shy with women, I am stiff like a puppet, no facial expression, unemotional when talking to a hottie. I am working on softening and taking things easy and not caring.
All the time I keep reading advice in the forum like:
"Don't be a pvssy! Just go to a mall and cold approach! No excuses!"
It is my personal belief this is bullsh!t. Maybe it applies at your level, maybe your development is that far. But for me, it would be saying:
"You started learning karate last week? So what! Break those 15 bricks with your forehead, don't make excuses you pvssy!"
My strategy is being slow and persistent. I am going out and meeting friends more, socialising more, talking to women more, working patiently. Slowly I started smiling, a little bit of kino. I want to overcome my shyness. No, it doesn't get me laid. But I am realistic. A few months down the line, I will be able flirt like a normal human being, will persistently deal with rejection, and will get there at my own pace. It's hard and slow for me, I didn't have a sudden moment of revelation yet. It's a process.
That is my point of view, what is yours?
let us discuss the value of building up your confidence with women step by step. I am a guy who is very shy with women, I am stiff like a puppet, no facial expression, unemotional when talking to a hottie. I am working on softening and taking things easy and not caring.
All the time I keep reading advice in the forum like:
"Don't be a pvssy! Just go to a mall and cold approach! No excuses!"
It is my personal belief this is bullsh!t. Maybe it applies at your level, maybe your development is that far. But for me, it would be saying:
"You started learning karate last week? So what! Break those 15 bricks with your forehead, don't make excuses you pvssy!"
My strategy is being slow and persistent. I am going out and meeting friends more, socialising more, talking to women more, working patiently. Slowly I started smiling, a little bit of kino. I want to overcome my shyness. No, it doesn't get me laid. But I am realistic. A few months down the line, I will be able flirt like a normal human being, will persistently deal with rejection, and will get there at my own pace. It's hard and slow for me, I didn't have a sudden moment of revelation yet. It's a process.
That is my point of view, what is yours?