I'm pretty perceptive person and I usually integrate into my repetoire of date game to make them feel i 'understand' them by asking about their past and how they got to where they are. I'm pretty good at piecing history together so am able to second guess and figure out certain turning points of their lives and why they did certain things.
The downside is it can bring up some repressed bad feelings if it was low point in their lives etc so may actually be counter productive.
The girl I'm seeing tonight as I mentioned in this thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=189184
Has a few issues and has lost interest, is this a tactic which is going to benefit me during the date?
I know i've been advised to act not eager, and to not be affected either way if she likes me or not, just assume she does. But would making her feel I understand her also help my cause?
The downside is it can bring up some repressed bad feelings if it was low point in their lives etc so may actually be counter productive.
The girl I'm seeing tonight as I mentioned in this thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=189184
Has a few issues and has lost interest, is this a tactic which is going to benefit me during the date?
I know i've been advised to act not eager, and to not be affected either way if she likes me or not, just assume she does. But would making her feel I understand her also help my cause?