LOL, alright, this concept is lost than.
The english language and NLP has poisoned our minds. This is why I post here and fvck with some of you guys so much, in life, things progress differently than online, so it's easier to express myself, whether you understand what I express or not.
tihash
DJ/PUA techniques are designed to work specifically with women, mainly because women are largely devoid of logic. It appeals to their emotions, which usually guide their actions.
Thanks for editing that since I read it last night. Though, I don't agree completely, women wouldn't understand men if they were totally illogical. They are guided greatly by emotions, but the emotions fuel the logic.
With men, it is the same. Logic has a greater impact, but logical emotions are what some call motivation.
I was asking for a DJ leader type of thinking. What Fransisco referred to as wing commander(old school sega genesis game
)
I know that NLP works surprisingly well. Leading thoughts works if you can maintain the "I am the prize" mentality. Kino works on a subtle level(high fives, hand shakes, pats on back, head rubbing, punch on the arm), as well as a higher level, you ever play fight with somebody your friends for life.
GloriouslyInsane
I know this sounds stupid but i divide my "friends" in three categories:
1. Real friends: People i've known for years and been through alot of **** together,happy,sad and life threatening moments (car crashes,terrible storms etc)
2. Friends: People i go out with,usually friends of my friends with which we have common interests.
3. Acquaintances: People i've talked to 3-5 times and we bump into eachother here and there.
I understand what your saying there. It runs a little different for me. I place my friends in terms of our relationships, not the amount of time we spend together. There are guys I've bumped into everyday for a month partied, and run trains on girls, but we're only acquanntances. Other guys I speak to once a month, but it's always a warm welcome and we can laugh about the stupidest things and we have a great brotherly love connection.
Francisco d'Anconia
Making friends with other guys isn't nearly as complicated as with sarging women. To make friends with a guy you just need to find a common ground to generate comradre.
True, but why? Is it because we have so much experience with it? You first are introduced to male friends, well platonic friends let's say for arguments sake, at around the age of two when you can first understand the concept of emotions and logic being linked to somebody outside of your immediate nurturing environment as a child. You sit there as a kid and learn the most elite basics of friendship, but that is with males generally, you associate the games, and the mindset of a male, and society even forces you to ignore and even be disgusted by female practices.
Some guys though when they are still developing, say at the age of five when they enter the mainstream and are left alone without parental guidance, are introduced to an environemtn they are not preared for. Bullying, they adopt tendencies that are recognized throughout life, in kindergarten. These kids stay away from from all contact except for those kids who are exceptionally safe playmates... let's call them aspiring AFC's.
Latinoman
That's NETWORKING. A huge necessity in the Professional life of ANY man.
Precisely. Networking, I hadn't thought of that term.
What is the best way to go about networking?
Practicing subtle techniques on women is good, but you lose your target pretty quickly. Attempting the same technique on a male for indirect game, has worked wonderfully for me. I'm trying to get other people's opinions on the subject.
tihash
being C+F with a potential guy friend will more likely alienate him than just being cool and friendly.
Have you ever teased a friend? It works EXACTLY the same with women, the same limits, the same kinds of conversations, laughs, eye locks, pauses, and c0ckiness. Making him laugh is still not the whole game, neither is establishing the top spot. As long as you establish equal grounds and make the other person recognize at least a portion of what they bring to the table your C+F did it's job.
Francisco d'Anconia
I wouldn't exert the energy of all the BS, besides in the beginning other guys will just think you're an @sshole.
Not true. Other guys will think your an a$$shole possibly, but unless you make an actual challenge that may destroy their chances of reaching a goal that they have in mind, the a$$hole behaviour will in fact come in with a strong presence, and command respect. Whether that be fear, comradery, or mutual acceptance, is a different matter entirely.
Life-Trainee
It's easy relating to guys especially on surface level. THere's a plethora of things you can talk to guys about: Sports, cars, music, substance (alcohol, smoking, drugs), technical interests, women, video games. If you know a little bit about all these topics you're good to go.
It is the same for women. Different subject matter though, but it is definitely easy to get a basic concept... ever run a BF destroyer after you stopped a girl while biting your fingers and ask for advice on skin care? It's hard if you don't know next to squat, but the girl gets WAYYYY into the conversation.
Same goes for guys imo if you can get them talking about what they know about your good.
Does anybody understand where I am heading with this?
