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Hello guys,
I just wanted to present this discussion that often is not talked about. When you are out getting to know, or dating a woman what side of you are you displaying?
I know know about any of you, but there is two sides to me...A extreme geek side, and the quote n quote social norm side. There is the video games, computers, video game music loving side of me and then the drinking, partying, hip hop, Reality Drudging Numbness that is on the other side of the fence...
Most girls whom I meet I display the latter as it is the most appealing side don't you agree? yet, if you are hiding the other side, and all of a sudden a wave of geekyness strikes her what then?
How much of an impact do you think a woman feels with a man to which her perception of him is this cool etc etc..all of a sudden changes to the other side..a geek?
I struggle with this everyday....Should i show 100% off the break, she likes this side of me, but couldn't care less about the other side.
Does it frighten you if you meet a great girl one side you know she likes..the other side she doesn't?
I guess the whole point of dating is getting to know someone inside and out...All cards on the table.
How do you guys feel about this?
I just wanted to present this discussion that often is not talked about. When you are out getting to know, or dating a woman what side of you are you displaying?
I know know about any of you, but there is two sides to me...A extreme geek side, and the quote n quote social norm side. There is the video games, computers, video game music loving side of me and then the drinking, partying, hip hop, Reality Drudging Numbness that is on the other side of the fence...
Most girls whom I meet I display the latter as it is the most appealing side don't you agree? yet, if you are hiding the other side, and all of a sudden a wave of geekyness strikes her what then?
How much of an impact do you think a woman feels with a man to which her perception of him is this cool etc etc..all of a sudden changes to the other side..a geek?
I struggle with this everyday....Should i show 100% off the break, she likes this side of me, but couldn't care less about the other side.
Does it frighten you if you meet a great girl one side you know she likes..the other side she doesn't?
I guess the whole point of dating is getting to know someone inside and out...All cards on the table.
How do you guys feel about this?