Whassup married men and others. Hope you had a good holiday weekend.
I thought I'd pick your brains and get your opinions. I was wondering how many of you who are married miss game/seduction/DJ/pickup or whatever you might call it.
I've been married two years, and I'm having a blast with my wife. Love her. I won't go into details, just know that we have a great time together, she still gives me a boner, and I have nothing to complain about regarding my marriage or married life.
Yet sometimes I miss the thrill (and disappointment, if that sounds weird) of game. I don't even know if it's the sexual variety so much as the seduction process - talking to women and picking their locks. I still do it in a limited sense - as much as I can to be "the guy other women want" and keep my frame in my marriage. This may sound weird but it can actually be more difficult to keep flirting at a sober, not-crossing-the-line level than to be an all-out DJ. It's like I'm walking around with a secret I can't tell anybody.
I even miss getting rejected - because I always knew it was part of the game.
I don't always feel this way. It just festers sometimes and other times gets me feeling bad, like I'm less committed to my wife than she deserves. But I know these are just private feelings, not actions. Other times I think, at least I'm not the subjugating chump getting burned. And yes I remind myself that it's not all fun, that there are scores of lame, immature, flaky, disrespectful, slvtty, bytchy, narcissistic women out there that I used to sift through.
I'm wondering what you guys think. I was going to PM one or two of you but decided I'd put this out there. Of course in writing it sounds really immature and stupid. "You miss game?" It's not depressing me or anything, LOL. I'm a happy guy, with a good life, and it's clearly a nice "problem" to have. I'm just curious - any of you married guys still have that fire burning? Or is it enough to know deep down you can have any woman you want?
I thought I'd pick your brains and get your opinions. I was wondering how many of you who are married miss game/seduction/DJ/pickup or whatever you might call it.
I've been married two years, and I'm having a blast with my wife. Love her. I won't go into details, just know that we have a great time together, she still gives me a boner, and I have nothing to complain about regarding my marriage or married life.
Yet sometimes I miss the thrill (and disappointment, if that sounds weird) of game. I don't even know if it's the sexual variety so much as the seduction process - talking to women and picking their locks. I still do it in a limited sense - as much as I can to be "the guy other women want" and keep my frame in my marriage. This may sound weird but it can actually be more difficult to keep flirting at a sober, not-crossing-the-line level than to be an all-out DJ. It's like I'm walking around with a secret I can't tell anybody.
I even miss getting rejected - because I always knew it was part of the game.
I don't always feel this way. It just festers sometimes and other times gets me feeling bad, like I'm less committed to my wife than she deserves. But I know these are just private feelings, not actions. Other times I think, at least I'm not the subjugating chump getting burned. And yes I remind myself that it's not all fun, that there are scores of lame, immature, flaky, disrespectful, slvtty, bytchy, narcissistic women out there that I used to sift through.
I'm wondering what you guys think. I was going to PM one or two of you but decided I'd put this out there. Of course in writing it sounds really immature and stupid. "You miss game?" It's not depressing me or anything, LOL. I'm a happy guy, with a good life, and it's clearly a nice "problem" to have. I'm just curious - any of you married guys still have that fire burning? Or is it enough to know deep down you can have any woman you want?