Do some women enjoy groveling?

[insidious]

OK, lemme tell you why I ask this. It seems whenever I have bothered a chick with my desperate attention, she is more likely to respond to a first date at least.

Whenever I play that cool and aloof a$$hole, it seems there are no fish biting.

What is the happy medium between desperate loneliness and smug independence?

 

[AgonyUncle]

Dude, if you are begging for the date in the first place, she has no interest level at all. Say goodbye, and move onto the next potential.

 

[So pimp its scary]

Have you ever wanted an ego boost?

Well, desperate attention is nothing more than an ego boost to some women.

Why they wouldn't respond to you being aloof? I had this same problem at first... in my mind I didn't give a shyt, but my body language was wrong.

 

[DonJuanMonk]

If your body language says "Confident, Masculine" while your verbals say "Come on baby, you know you want to date me" - You have a more than 50% chance of actually going out with her. Body language speaks 3-5 times louder than verbal.