RE: Some of the posts above --- See: Initial response
These guys are chasing after ******* women who chase after ******* guys - because they're all crazy and have issues. These are the kind of women nice guys seek after, and complain about - the ones who date and get knocked up by *******s, use nice guys and treat them like **** - all while complaining about the *******s using and treating them like **** (due to being stuck up *******s themselves). These girls are losers, and never change. They don't suddenly want the nice guys - they just use them like they always have.
When a nice guy chases after women like this - which they almost always do - he's going to finish last. Most of these women approach guys like this, as well, because they know they're easy to control, manipulate, and jerk around. They make easy targets and doormats.
Never forget: you attract what you are. If a girl is chasing after and complaining about all these jerks - she is likely a jerk herself. And, it shows in how she treats those who are nice (ie, like ****). Her complaining just makes her self-centered and hypocritical. She will always respond to what she is - a jerk. She wouldn't be so selfish, spoiled, immature, stuck up, coniving, manipulative, etc if she wasn't. Stop sympathizing with, and trying to save hoes like this.
This is what nice guys need to look at, as well. Who are THEY chasing after, and why? Yeah, you can complain that this girl is chasing after an ******* and using you, but you're the one chasing after the same thing (ie, her). You're complaining about her complaining - while also complaining about her, as it pertains to how she's treating you. Hmmmmm.... :trouble:
Truth is, most people simply aren't as good or nice as they think they are. That's why they focus on, attract, and ***** about losers and jerks. Look inward, and you'll see why this is happening. Especially do this if EVERYONE you associate with or date fits this bill. It's never all women, or people - only the ones you choose to get involved with, or are attracting into your life.
