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I'm 20 years young.
I'm a Professional Athlete.
Soccer... if you want to know.

All the threads about not fapping are true.

DO NOT FAP FREQUENTLY.

I do not fap! I'm not gonna say I never do it but I do it maybe once every 3 - 5 months.

Take supplements Magnesium and zinc and (vitamin D if you don't get enough sun).

Your (seed) is your LIFE.
Only let it out when you have sex with a woman.


No fapping will introduce you to a lot of benefits.

-You put on muscle.
-You have tons of energy.
-You feel super sexual. ( There is time when I feel an inner rage and power like an animal. Ready to fux sh!t up!!! )
-Talking to chicks seems easier.
-You feel less emotional.
-You feel motivated to go out and exercise.

so many more benefits...

YOU GET SH1T DONE GUYS.

NOT FAPPING WILL INTRODUCE YOU TO A WHOLE DIFFERENT MINDSET.

WE WERE NOT DESIGNED TO TO FAP.

FAPPING AND SEX ARE TWO COMPLETELY DIFFERENT THINGS.

WE WERE DESIGNED TO GO OUT AND FVCK WOMEN.

I can honestly say I feel different when I'm done banging a girl and done fapping. fapping makes me feel weak, tired, and lazy. But that's just me.

Like I said i'm not saying I NEVER fap. And i'm not anti-fap. But excessive fapping will DESTROY YOU. :nono:

Even when you feel you're beyond h0rny and cant hold back from fapping. HOLD BACK. GO OUT AND EXERCISE. LIFT SOME WEIGHTS OR PLAY YOUR FAV SPORT. LEARN TO CONTROL YOURSELF AND YOUR MIND.

By doing this YOU will feel like an BEAST.

Try it guys.
The only bad thing about not fapping is waking up to clean yourself from your wet dreams lol. Which will happen alot! But that is okay let nature take its course.

IMPORTANT : Take cold showers everyday.

Peace guys. :box:
 

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If our seed is our life then how do we explain male eunuchs who have had their balls castrated?
 

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And the power of sexual energy.

Fvck all of that pmo beta sh!!ttt. We need to start aproaching this in a different way.

Excessive fapping everyday will destroy you.

Even the ancients, Greek warriors, gladiators, and ancient sport Olympians knew about this sh!!tt. There is even old ancient texts written about this, conserving your seed for optimal performance in different areas in life, and the accumulating and conservation of sexual energy.

DO NOT FAP TO PORN, HAVE SEX!! IT AFFECTS THE MIND AND BODY DIFFERENTLY. Those who have read stuff on yourbrainonporn know this.
 

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The Truth has been spoken.

I have been doing this for the last 6 months and not only does it do every said by the OP it also gives you self control and the additional testosterone boosts your self esteem and confidence like you could not imagine.

I find that I hit my masculine peak after 2 weeks without. I see my FWB every Monday ( Yeah boi ) and only once a week and this has been going on for the last 3 months and is as good as the first time. That is because the frustration and interest builds and you perform 10 times better when that happens.

If you Fap and do not get laid try not Fapping for a month. Watch how quickly the girl you would normally not ask out is suddenly Suspect Number 1.

Look at Achilles. He was smacking every guy into the earth until he met that little cheeky girl from the land of sand and then BOOM. He was too busy getting laid and his cousin got mashed up.
 

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GearsGod said:
What's a dude without his balls and c0ck. Nothing.
A few soldiers I heard had their C0ck and balls blown off By mines. It's not ideal but they're very much alive.
 

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sylvester the cat said:
A few soldiers I heard had their C0ck and balls blown off By mines. It's not ideal but they're very much alive.
Ofcourse there alive. Why would they die without there balls and cawk? Living without your balls and cawk, pretty sure you'll notice the difference.
 

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Jair213 said:
Ofcourse there alive. Why would they die without there balls and cawk? Living without your balls and cawk, pretty sure you'll notice the difference.
Op said our seed was our life. I was just pointing out that male eunuchs and certain soldiers did not produce seed so was wondering how that fit in with this clAim seeing as they had no balls and were still alive.
 

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I agree with OP.. Easier said than done of course. But to have control of our desires is one of the most valuable skills we can possess.
 

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Quit pmo once for 7 months cause i thought i had Porn induced ED, turned out it was anxiety. All this stuff is placebo, masturbate at will.
 

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How did you resolve the anxiety?

So it did not resolve itself during the no fap period?

djthiago1 said:
Quit pmo once for 7 months cause i thought i had Porn induced ED, turned out it was anxiety. All this stuff is placebo, masturbate at will.
 

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Jair213 said:
Even the ancients, Greek warriors, gladiators, and ancient sport Olympians knew about this sh!!tt.
Let's not forget that ancient "Greek warriors, gladiators and sport Olympians" rather enjoyed fvcking each other in the @ss, so they are probably not the best reference point when discussing human sexuality (unless you are a fudge pusher yourself).

From a physiological standpoint, fapping is no different from having sex. Your d!ck does not know the difference between your hand and some chick's pvssy. So let's cut the pseudo-science "your seed is your life" sh!t. Fapping is bad because it can be psychologically addictive, a waste of time and a surrogate for real sex. However, it is not physically bad for you.
 

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mr. kennedy said:
^ How did you resolve your anxiety?
Hmm said:
How did you resolve the anxiety?

So it did not resolve itself during the no fap period?
Nope, what worked for me was TIME. What do i mean by time is: Do not give up. Last time i had anxiety was on my first time with ex, i had ED, she noticed it, i laughed it off and i said i was nervous but told her to keep trying, so we kept kissing while she kept stroking the D, then after a long time it just got up and i never had it again.

Moral of the story: Get the girl to keep trying to get your **** up preferrably through kissing and touching and not bjs, i dont know about you guys but when i used to get ed with bjs i kept thinking the girl's mouth was getting tired, and that is distracting.
 

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Bokanovsky said:
Let's not forget that ancient "Greek warriors, gladiators and sport Olympians" rather enjoyed fvcking each other in the @ss, so they are probably not the best reference point when discussing human sexuality (unless you are a fudge pusher yourself).

From a physiological standpoint, fapping is no different from having sex. Your d!ck does not know the difference between your hand and some chick's pvssy. So let's cut the pseudo-science "your seed is your life" sh!t. Fapping is bad because it can be psychologically addictive, a waste of time and a surrogate for real sex. However, it is not physically bad for you.

^^^This!
 

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Well I havent fapped in a while. I started leaving my personal laptop at work, so now I have no access to porn at home. I'm def not gonna look up porn on my work laptop and my phone is too small.

It was really addictive to me. I was addicted for 6 years and now I'm finally starting to live without it. It's like a drug
 

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i didnt fap for a week and i bench pressed 800 lbs, out ran a cheetah, beat up 80 people in a bar fight, and banged 40 hoes in 3 days. yah!
 

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I resist myself for long periods. When it first happens it's because emotions simply overrides control, and I stand no chance stopping myself. The orgasms I get from that are insane because of all that built up energy being released. You could say it's like a heroin user taking a hit and then having the discipline to not take another hit before the previous rush leaves the system. It's a rush every time. The natural reward circuit works the same way, fap every day and you build tolerance to the natural chemicals the brain release. In other words you get an orgasm, but it's effects fade quickly and you'll soon be going for another hit. So yeah, psychological addiction is what I have to agree with on this one. Don't have to go all or nothing and there's no exact numbers, moderation is what works. This doesn't apply only to fapping, it also applies to every other area of a lifestyle.

Telling yourself not to masturbate and to only release it during actual sex is a strong form of motivation though. It only works if you enforce these conditions on yourself though. This brings us back to the main issue that plagues a lot of guys here, and this is self-control.

Although the Bible (which I couldn't care less about) contains this piece of wisdom, it doesn't contain a sufficient explanation understandable in modern times. Some people are humble enough to accept just a "what?", but some people don't get it without having a sensible "why?".

To those who want rock solid hard scientific facts, good luck in life you're gonna have a hard time. Even science acknowledge uncertainty, which brings me to the next topic addressed in this thread. I'm talking about anxiety and insecurity, and how to resolve it in itself. This is also something covered by Pook if anyone cares, the solution is mainly to acknowledge that the reward outweighs the risks. There's a risk on pretty much anything we do, and not taking any means isolating yourself in a cushioned room in the extreme case. Anxiety is avoiding doing something because there is a slim chance it can hurt you, whether it's emotionally or physically. In the case of social anxiety it's mostly emotionally we're talking about, and taken to the extreme means not saying a single word. Why? Because you know that whatever you say, someone will hate you for it. By taking risks however you accumulate experience that tells you very exactly what's good and what's not, you learn what not to do by failing and feeling the pain. Being an alpha also means no pvssying away from the potential of fvcking things up.

So solution to anxiety? What everyone tells you, don't worry about anything. Deal with the sh!t when and if there is sh!t to deal with. After a lot of sh!t you will worry even less, because you have a sharp intuition about when things are about to go to hell.

Note: I mean "you" as in whoever reads this, it's not a direct response to OP.
 

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Chornic masturbation/excessive masturbation without PORN 2-3 times daily yes it fvcks you up also. Even worse
with porn involved.(witch is watt most guys do and that's watt OP meant)

Bokanovsky said:
Let's not forget that ancient "Greek warriors, gladiators and sport Olympians" rather enjoyed fvcking each other in the @ss, so they are probably not the best reference point when discussing human sexuality (unless you are a fudge pusher yourself).

From a physiological standpoint, fapping is no different from having sex. Your d!ck does not know the difference between your hand and some chick's pvssy. So let's cut the pseudo-science "your seed is your life" sh!t. Fapping is bad because it can be psychologically addictive, a waste of time and a surrogate for real sex. However, it is not physically bad for you.
http://yourbrainonporn.com/physiological-and-psychological-effects-modern-day-pornography-2013
 
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