silverwex
Master Don Juan
Hey guys,
Heres an interesting story for you all, let me know what your opinions are after...
Right I went out last night with some of the lads. First we went to a friends 21st at some bar. We stayed there for about an hour and then headed into town to go to a club (if ya could call it that! ;p).
When we got there i ordered a beer and walked around a bit with one of my mates. One of my other mates, who we walked down with, went off in some other direction so, after a while, we decided to look for him.
We found him eventually, sitting with this girl (hb8) and her (now ex)boyfriend. Lets call this girl MARY and my friend in question JOHN. Now, John is, in my opinion, a total AFC even though he always manages to hang round with the hottest babes (HOW!?). HEs a cool guy that ive known for about 6 years now. He has a HUGE thing for MARY - come to think of it he always manages to get hung up on one girl and tends to get a bit obsessed with them - he reminds me of me in my AFC days - a bad case.
SO John really really likes Mary and texts/sms's her every day (id reckon). HE once showed me his phone with a load of texts from her - as said before he gets a bit TOO much into girls.
ME on the other hand text MARY now and again and i always try to keep the conversation light. The first night i met MARY i pretended to propose to her so we have all this "Hows my wife today? U put out the trash?" thing going on - bit of a laugh.
Anyway the drink was flowing, and the fun was being had. JOHN decided to go home early. A while after he left he text a mate of mine saying something like: "Oh i feel bad, i feel i may have given MARY the cold shoulder by just leaving like that". This was NOT the case, i doubt she even knew he had gone such was his quietness on the night.
SO anyway i say to the lads "Are you getting up to dance guys?" and they say later but MARY says she will. So we go up dancing. We walked into the club area and they were playing slow sets. I said "Ah no, theyre playing slow sets we should probably go back" but we went up anyway. We danced (hands on hips etc) for a while and were chatting away getting on real well. Then i asked her about her boyfriend and she says "We've actually decided to finish tonight" I then asked her why and she said her bf was a bit too boring and that shes going to college in dublin - I said "oh thats a pity" and all and then i asked her about JOHN and she says "Oh hes lovely and all that (BAD SIGN!) but hes a bit too possessive". I then tried some C+F and said "Ahh, well im not boring OR possessive!" with a grin and she said "Yeah i know..."
So anyway we danced on, she got close and i ended up kissing her. During the dance she also said i should come up to dublin sometime as she has a flat up there.
We went back to the lads and at the end of the night i was heading off with a mate. She saw us getting ready to go and asked "Are you going now?" i said "Yea" and i signalled for her to text me over the week - She said yea.
HERES THE INTERESTING PART: When i got outside my mate called me over and showed me a text he had received from JOHN which read: "Tell silverwex if he tries it on with MARY ill ****ing kill him". I was shocked and really annoyed by this. This did NOT sound a bit like my mate. Hes never threatened me.
To make it worse he text me saying "U touch her and ill ****ing kill ya".
This talk only makes me more determined.
The thing is guys, i do like this girl, my mate isnt with her and she obviously doesnt like him in that way. Ive been through a few girls over the past few months but none i wanna date - this one i do wanna date tho.
What should i do? If i talk to JOHN about it hell prob end up hitting me (hes bigger than me!).
ADVICE NEEDED!
Thanks guys.
Heres an interesting story for you all, let me know what your opinions are after...
Right I went out last night with some of the lads. First we went to a friends 21st at some bar. We stayed there for about an hour and then headed into town to go to a club (if ya could call it that! ;p).
When we got there i ordered a beer and walked around a bit with one of my mates. One of my other mates, who we walked down with, went off in some other direction so, after a while, we decided to look for him.
We found him eventually, sitting with this girl (hb8) and her (now ex)boyfriend. Lets call this girl MARY and my friend in question JOHN. Now, John is, in my opinion, a total AFC even though he always manages to hang round with the hottest babes (HOW!?). HEs a cool guy that ive known for about 6 years now. He has a HUGE thing for MARY - come to think of it he always manages to get hung up on one girl and tends to get a bit obsessed with them - he reminds me of me in my AFC days - a bad case.
SO John really really likes Mary and texts/sms's her every day (id reckon). HE once showed me his phone with a load of texts from her - as said before he gets a bit TOO much into girls.
ME on the other hand text MARY now and again and i always try to keep the conversation light. The first night i met MARY i pretended to propose to her so we have all this "Hows my wife today? U put out the trash?" thing going on - bit of a laugh.
Anyway the drink was flowing, and the fun was being had. JOHN decided to go home early. A while after he left he text a mate of mine saying something like: "Oh i feel bad, i feel i may have given MARY the cold shoulder by just leaving like that". This was NOT the case, i doubt she even knew he had gone such was his quietness on the night.
SO anyway i say to the lads "Are you getting up to dance guys?" and they say later but MARY says she will. So we go up dancing. We walked into the club area and they were playing slow sets. I said "Ah no, theyre playing slow sets we should probably go back" but we went up anyway. We danced (hands on hips etc) for a while and were chatting away getting on real well. Then i asked her about her boyfriend and she says "We've actually decided to finish tonight" I then asked her why and she said her bf was a bit too boring and that shes going to college in dublin - I said "oh thats a pity" and all and then i asked her about JOHN and she says "Oh hes lovely and all that (BAD SIGN!) but hes a bit too possessive". I then tried some C+F and said "Ahh, well im not boring OR possessive!" with a grin and she said "Yeah i know..."
So anyway we danced on, she got close and i ended up kissing her. During the dance she also said i should come up to dublin sometime as she has a flat up there.
We went back to the lads and at the end of the night i was heading off with a mate. She saw us getting ready to go and asked "Are you going now?" i said "Yea" and i signalled for her to text me over the week - She said yea.
HERES THE INTERESTING PART: When i got outside my mate called me over and showed me a text he had received from JOHN which read: "Tell silverwex if he tries it on with MARY ill ****ing kill him". I was shocked and really annoyed by this. This did NOT sound a bit like my mate. Hes never threatened me.
To make it worse he text me saying "U touch her and ill ****ing kill ya".
This talk only makes me more determined.
The thing is guys, i do like this girl, my mate isnt with her and she obviously doesnt like him in that way. Ive been through a few girls over the past few months but none i wanna date - this one i do wanna date tho.
What should i do? If i talk to JOHN about it hell prob end up hitting me (hes bigger than me!).
ADVICE NEEDED!
Thanks guys.
