So just been on a trip with my HB 8.5 distance LTR (we lived in the same city when we met but I had to move 3.5 hours away for work).
She complained to me that I only contact her for meeting up and that I don't care about her.
She complains that an ex from years ago (she says she does text back but has not met him for 4 years) still contacts her and asks how she is, that a "best guy friend" does favours for her and asks how she is, whilst Scormus is only interested in when the next date is.
Whats the correct play here?
Do we respond to her feedback and copy a little of the AFC behavior from the ex and the orbiter?
My answer was, tell me all about how you are in person. We're not pen pals or phone pals.
She complained to me that I only contact her for meeting up and that I don't care about her.
She complains that an ex from years ago (she says she does text back but has not met him for 4 years) still contacts her and asks how she is, that a "best guy friend" does favours for her and asks how she is, whilst Scormus is only interested in when the next date is.
Whats the correct play here?
Do we respond to her feedback and copy a little of the AFC behavior from the ex and the orbiter?
My answer was, tell me all about how you are in person. We're not pen pals or phone pals.