SS, other than showing that you can speak fluently and well, conveys no value.
A girl begins to assign value to you from the moment she notices you. The way you walk, posture, EC, pace, clothes. Any outward appearance will affect value.
Some basics for outward appearance:
walk with confidence. Shoulders back is good. It is more ****y looking. your pace should move. Do not walk slow or fast. Faster than medium is about right. Look like you know where you are going. Arms should be swinging comfortably. Your movements should have a slightly feminine swank. That's right -- walk fluidly and strut with your ass as you walk. Do not stare at anyone.
EC(eye contact) involves gazing, not staring. If you are staring and waiting for the other person to look away, you are doing things wrong. Look away on your own terms, not becasue someone looked away. This means at least a decent glance, and perhaps more. Smile or wink or wave, or even throw a snowball after the EC.
Smile and facial expression should be appropriate to the situation. Master your sexual state and learn to implement it fully at will. Clothes- flashy, but should reflect you. Personally, I think jewellery(unless it has a purpose(watch), or has some sort of significance) is, at least for me, a test of character. Those who wear it to be noticed often have LSE. For example, at clubs, there are girls inside with all sorts of piercings, girls who wear sunglasses, and girls who wear hats. In my experience, the girls who wear jewellery often are insecure and NEED(subconsciously) to have their accessories noticed. I do not recommend you wear any jewellery, unless for the explicit purpose of peacocking. DO NOT BE A POSER OR A FAKE.
AI(approach Invitation)
A girl gives you signals whe wants you to approach her. Much of this has to do with both her state, and the value she has assigned to you based on your outward appearance. Attitude is key here. Just go up there and do your thing. She has already expressed interest, so you are already high in her books. What you say is unimportant, so long as your attitude is strong. Neg hits, in AI cirumstances, should not come off with too much sting, unless she is an HB 10 or 9 with high confidence.
No AI- Your outward appearance just does not cut it, or she did not notice you. Act on the 3 second rule. Or do something to get her attantion. Jump about, block her way, bump into her. You must nw demostrate value and begin to raise her interest. BTW. In these cases, do not say HI. Do not lead into LJBF territory. If you find it is, use a neg hit, tease, C + F. Be liberal in your use of neg hits in these circumstances. Convey personality, and keep her interested with negs, and the rest of your arsenal. The opening stage is most important here. Your opener should make her understand that she has to be worth your time for you to talk to her. Look up a post by Tyler Durden on ASF(
www.fastseduction.com) entitled most spastic late night ramblings, and how to sarge for real. He covers this very well.
Do not SS without AI. It is too corny. If, however, you are pretty advanced at your game, go ahead.
This is not about your value, but about her perceived value of you. Remember that.