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dirty talk during sex, any tips?

TheFlyingMan

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this girl was asking me how come I don't talk dirty during sex, she said it really turns her on. Any tips?
Is calling her "slut" and stuff like that too much? Some guys say they do that, but I don't know.
 

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TheFlyingMan said:
this girl was asking me how come I don't talk dirty during sex, she said it really turns her on. Any tips?
Is calling her "slut" and stuff like that too much? Some guys say they do that, but I don't know.
i learned how to talk dirty and f'ck from my afc days when i would watch porn for hours...
now all that watching comes in handy...

start out with simple stuff... once you get into it - she should accelerate it.
 

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I just want to fvck you for days!
I'm going to pound that little pus sy!

Theres more but it is also HOW you say it that is very important
 

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well, I usually like ending with something a little fancy. During the climax Ive been known to throw out "feel the rhythm, feel the rhyme, get on in its bobsled time!!!" or my most recent, "I was saving that bacon!!!" (thank you I am legend). Its just something funny (always gets a laugh) and takes them off guard, but probably not good for new partners.

As for your question anything really works, your puzzys so wet, I want to lick you all over, Im going to make you moan...
 
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KarmaSutra said:
The most important aspect of dirty talk is to coalesce it with passion. You have to say from your gut not your c0ck.
I disagree. It is better to come from the heart not the gut. You forgot passion doesn't come from the gut. That is where instinct and intuition comes from. 2nd and 1st chakra.

To the kid who posted this:

You want to open your heart a bit to feel a connection to this woman first. That doesn't mean get all sappy. You have to feel the connection and let your heart speak for you.

It isn't about calling a woman a slut or that cory crap in adult porns. Only low self esteem women enjoy that type of junk.

You need to look her in the eyes as your making love to her and then just talk to her. Let the words flow out of you.

If you have done your homework then you know what her passion buttons are. You know what words she likes. You also know her sexual fantasies so feed them back to her.

For the low self esteem types even they enjoy good love making with a bit of dirt mixed in. I would just go easy on the slut or ***** comments.

Asking her questions every now and then will allow you to build up your rap (vocals).

"is that good baby, you like that..."

Then giving her orders during this process will heighten her ability to relax and let you lead. "squeeze my ****...slow it down a bit baby...that's it..tighter...you feel so good...that's my little girl..."

"this is mine now...every stroke we touch each other deeper...no don't look away look at me...feel me deep inside of you...feel that..."


Let your heart speak after that without getting sappy and becoming a afc symp!

So it comes from the heart and the voice working together to produce the best results.
 

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dirty talking rules... especially when combined with hairpulling, choking, pinning/hold down. Gotta love that kinda intensity! NO i'm not condoning sexual violence, but in my experience, women love to be dominated.

I try and be as uninhibited as I can. Sex is the best when you're uninhibited. I'll say stuff like, "Gonna grab you by the fvckin throat while I pound that tight wet pvssy" or "I'm gonna ram that tight lil pvssy from the back all fvckin night long", etc ... haha, that sounds like cheesy porno talk!

Mista Ballz that's some pretty funky dirty talk there haha... might have to steal some of those phrases!
 

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did some nerd just talk about chakra? r u 4 realz?
 

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My girl's favorite thing is when I talk about us with another girl or another guy.

I describe, in full detail, what I'd want us/her do do in various threesome (or even group) situations.

Things like how it would feel to have a cack in every hole, or lick the **** of the girl I'm fukin.

Also go to the bookstore and buy a book of short erotic stories. You know, a book full of Penthouse type letters . I'll read these to her in bed.
 

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Is calling her "slut" and stuff like that too much? Some guys say they do that, but I don't know.

Just start out slow, and work your way up, and you can say anything to her. Start asking her "yes" questions, like 'do you want this?' My ex-wife loved to be called a slvt in bed. I used to think "wh0re" was off-limits until my last gf specifically asked me to call her a 'fvckin wh0re' as I pulled her hair :)
 

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Just describe what you want to do, or what you're about to do, in sexy detail. Its helps if you have a decent vocabulary. When every other word is "fvckin", its not really that sexy.

"I'm gonna fvcking fvck that pvssy all night, ya fvckin slut!"

Yeah, only the true sluts would find that hot. Just go learn a bunch of adjectives that can be sexy if used right.

"I'm gonna thrust into that warm, dripping wet pvssy all night long, making you moan until your lungs give out. That's right, be my little slut."

If that doesn't work for her, nothing will.
 

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him: oh ya baby, how does that feel
her: ummm
him: you ok?
her: ummm i dont think its in
him: ummm, how about now?
her: no
him: now?
her: here just let me
him: now?
her: ok, its in
him: oh ya baby, how does that feel
her: umm
him: whats wrong?
her: it slipped out
him: how about now?
her: ummm
him: now?
her: ummm, hold on
him: now?
her: ok, its in.
 

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Don't forget the oh so infamous, "OHHH, my **** feels like corn!"
 

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How about using THIS one after you've got her all hot and wet-----and you're pulling her thongs off:

"Mmmmm...are these the panties that your mother laid out for you this morning???"

LOL.

Oh, and Big "PROPS" to anybody on here who actually recognizes where I "stole" THAT dirty-talk line from----I "think" I quoted it verbatim...
 

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It depends on the girl, but even the most conservative that I've dated have wanted to at some point become a little slut.

Don't be a douche just let it flow out naturally don't make a big deal about it. Grab her hair and tell her what you're gona do to her.
 

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Victory Unlimited said:
How about using THIS one after you've got her all hot and wet-----and you're pulling her thongs off:

"Mmmmm...are these the panties that your mother laid out for you this morning???"

LOL.

Oh, and Big "PROPS" to anybody on here who actually recognizes where I "stole" THAT dirty-talk line from----I "think" I quoted it verbatim...
GEORGE: (Yelling out to a waitress) Gonna need some water here!
 
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