flyinshark
Senior Don Juan
I've been dating this girl for 3 weeks now. We had instant chemistry from the start and i kissed her the first night we met at a party. We had a lot of fun together ever since.
Last week, we both went to a house party and i also invited some friends who were supposed to just drop by for 30 minutes and then leave me alone with her. Unfortunately, just one girl friend of mine showed up and she decided to stay the whole night at the party with me and the other girl, kinda messing up my plans.
This girl friend of mine has been liking me for as long as i can remember, and i never liked her back. However, i recently told her that i might sleep with her if she wants, but i that i cannot offer her a relationship because i dont feel the chemistry. I guess she accepted, cuz last week at the party she was all over me dancing with me and wanting to kiss me.
So there i was, at the house party, with the girl who always liked me and the girl i was dating (let's call her ''my girl''). I danced with both individually, and sometimes with both simultaneously, just having fun knowing they both digged me. I was kissing my girl from time to time... And at one moment the other girl decided she wanted some action too and kissed me. I kissed back, in front of my girl who was sitting down behind us, thinking that i was not yet exclusive with her so it wouldn't be a big deal.
After the party, i spent the night at my girl's place and we had fun. The next day she told me that the fact that i kissed the other girl made her uncomfortable and she didnt like that. I said i was sorry, and she did her best to forgive me. A bit later, she asked me if i wanted to be her boyfriend, to what i told her that i needed a bit more time since i've just come out of a long 2 year relationship but that i liked her and enjoyed spending time with her, and she said okay.
In the following couple of days, she kept on asking me questions about my girl friend that i kissed at the party and she started to make me regret kissing her. I appologised, realising that it was indeed a stupid thing to kiss a girl i was not even interested in, in front of a girl i saw a lot of potential with.
Two days ago, just when i thought my girl and i were cool and over the incident, she sent me a series of text messages telling me that she thought more about it and she decided that she shouldn't see me anymore. She said that she had standards and that she should have respected them and she should have ended our dating as soon as she saw me kiss the other girl, but for some reason she didnt act immediately.
I then told her that her decision hurts me, but i respect her choice. I told her that i thought we had something special and that we could have been really happy together, and that it's not my style to kiss random girls like that, since i have good values, but that i made a mistake and that can happen because i'm human.
Anyway, this is my story for this week. I'd appreciate any comments, flaming, or suggestions on it. Thanks guys!
Last week, we both went to a house party and i also invited some friends who were supposed to just drop by for 30 minutes and then leave me alone with her. Unfortunately, just one girl friend of mine showed up and she decided to stay the whole night at the party with me and the other girl, kinda messing up my plans.
This girl friend of mine has been liking me for as long as i can remember, and i never liked her back. However, i recently told her that i might sleep with her if she wants, but i that i cannot offer her a relationship because i dont feel the chemistry. I guess she accepted, cuz last week at the party she was all over me dancing with me and wanting to kiss me.
So there i was, at the house party, with the girl who always liked me and the girl i was dating (let's call her ''my girl''). I danced with both individually, and sometimes with both simultaneously, just having fun knowing they both digged me. I was kissing my girl from time to time... And at one moment the other girl decided she wanted some action too and kissed me. I kissed back, in front of my girl who was sitting down behind us, thinking that i was not yet exclusive with her so it wouldn't be a big deal.
After the party, i spent the night at my girl's place and we had fun. The next day she told me that the fact that i kissed the other girl made her uncomfortable and she didnt like that. I said i was sorry, and she did her best to forgive me. A bit later, she asked me if i wanted to be her boyfriend, to what i told her that i needed a bit more time since i've just come out of a long 2 year relationship but that i liked her and enjoyed spending time with her, and she said okay.
In the following couple of days, she kept on asking me questions about my girl friend that i kissed at the party and she started to make me regret kissing her. I appologised, realising that it was indeed a stupid thing to kiss a girl i was not even interested in, in front of a girl i saw a lot of potential with.
Two days ago, just when i thought my girl and i were cool and over the incident, she sent me a series of text messages telling me that she thought more about it and she decided that she shouldn't see me anymore. She said that she had standards and that she should have respected them and she should have ended our dating as soon as she saw me kiss the other girl, but for some reason she didnt act immediately.
I then told her that her decision hurts me, but i respect her choice. I told her that i thought we had something special and that we could have been really happy together, and that it's not my style to kiss random girls like that, since i have good values, but that i made a mistake and that can happen because i'm human.
Anyway, this is my story for this week. I'd appreciate any comments, flaming, or suggestions on it. Thanks guys!
