Did I call this one right?

[evesman]

So we've eliminated one factor. So what is it that's preventing edger from getting laid?

 

[decades]

Again, if these ugly and dorky guys can pull attractive women, then I'm pretty certain they could care less about my hair or my wardrobe stye. Furthermore, I see lots and lots of longhaired guys just like me pulling in some fine women. I see this when I go to shows or at the clubs/bars. Most of the time I see a fellow longhair and he's with a chick, in the majority of cases, she's hot.

yeah you can pull with the pony tail. but it would be much easier if you cleaned up your presentation. However, I think you would really benefit from a PUA boot camp where you could learn some solid club game.

 

[evesman]

^^My sense is that edger is simply going to continue in his rut. He will approach occasionally, fail, come back here posting for advice, then call people names when they offer to help (thereby protecting his overly fragile ego).

 

[edger]

^^My sense is that edger is simply going to continue in his rut. He will approach occasionally, fail, come back here posting for advice, then call people names when they offer to help (thereby protecting his overly fragile ego).

?? Where have I called anyone names? How old are you by the way?

 

[edger]

Edger, you have an ego that is not attractive. I bet you are throwing out a controlling vibe that is creeping chicks out.

What kind of ego are we talking about? If you're talking about an ego in the sense that I believe/know and act like I'm the prize, then yes, you're right, I have a big ego. And can you elaborate on the "controlling vibe" part? I personally don't see anything as far as a "controlling vibe", but I'm listening here with an open-mind.

 

[edger]

Yet you are reluctant to change, since to do so is to conform and hence act like other 'stupid' people.

You didn't read my post thoroughly. I don't keep my hair long because I don't wish to conform, I keep it long because I think it looks "cool", has sex appeal, and adds character to a guy. It has nothing to do with conforming. I actually think people who dress or sport their hair a certain way for the purpose of being a non-conformist, are idiots. You should look a certain way because YOU LIKE that look, not do it for the purpose of being a "non-conformist".

 

[edger]

yeah you can pull with the pony tail. but it would be much easier if you cleaned up your presentation. However, I think you would really benefit from a PUA boot camp where you could learn some solid club game.

I have to ask you guys, what is it exactly about long hair that you don't like? I'm curious.

And I wanted to also mention, this "clean cut" thing that gets thrown around a lot has nothing to do with hair length. You can still be a "clean cut" guy and have long hair. As long as you take care of your hair, and it looks presentable, you're fine, there's no problem. You might as well then question whether or not women are clean cut, since most of them have long hair.