If they hit your shoulder it doesnt matter, make sure ure always looking forward to your destination, and never change your path, if you do then youre part of the percentage of people that conform to society
When you do see a hot girl, lose yourself. First think as to why u shouldnt approach bc it will happen one way or another, but then think of every reason you should approach. It is not a big deal! think to yourself "what if tomorrow im in my deathbed and im still regrettting the fact that i did not approach that girl". Which feeling is worse? pain of regret is worse than rejection. Plus whats the big deal, she rejects you and what? you just move on to the next girl, she aint the only girl in the world.
Listen to the song 'lose yourself' by eminem before you approach. He talks about missing an opportunity you can only take once in a lifetime, and how you shouldnt miss it.
True DJs never take a situation for granted, they see one and SEIZE IT, because they know that they might never get it again. Plus no one is going to remember you approaching a girl 100 years from now, no one gives a ****. and all the guys that see you will think youre a boss. I mean if you see aguy approaching a hot girl what are u going to think of him , "oh what an *******", or "man that guy is on top of his game, i should be more like him" !/
everyone will think like that of you.