MakeMeHappy
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Hello there,
Altough having followed the forums and advice for some time, its still my first post. Maybe because only now i really feel i need help.
I just can't get girls, and i'm feeling terrible about it, really depressed. It's been 3 years since my last LTR, and since then, i've hookup with a couple of girls abroad in some of my trips, but that's it. Where i live i just can't do it and meet an interesting girl that is also interested in going out with me.
When i go out to clubs i try and get rejected in a really mean way, girls are really rude sometime just for trying to talk to them or dance.
Messaging girls after meeting them either on facebook on cell phone, i never ever ever get a response that shows interest. I tried a lot of stuff, using the stuff on their profile, making jokes, being CF, nothing ever worked.
I don't think i'm ugly, maybe i'm just boring, it's the only conclusion i can get for not having responses.
Been LJBF by a lot of girls, specially one that i really like a lot. And one that i know that if i would have a girlfriend would get really jealous and maybe change her way of thinking. The thing is, i can't go out with any other girls where i live!
It's weird, i've been abroad to brasil and girls were all over me, i literally didn't have to move and girls would come to meet me and sleep with me, everyday, everynight.
You maybe thinking it can also be my inner self. For getting girls you have to be confident and have stuff in your life fixed, goals, etc right? That's the priority, only then girls.
I have lots of money, i am my own boss, i travel every month on vacation to resorts, beaches, etc, i have an amazing car, and i have my own place in front of the beach! And having all this, i can't get a single girl interested in me, and being like this for so long, i'm really getting depressed. I really miss the company of a girlfriend, someone who loves me and shares life with me.
If anyone can help me i'd be most apreciated..
Altough having followed the forums and advice for some time, its still my first post. Maybe because only now i really feel i need help.
I just can't get girls, and i'm feeling terrible about it, really depressed. It's been 3 years since my last LTR, and since then, i've hookup with a couple of girls abroad in some of my trips, but that's it. Where i live i just can't do it and meet an interesting girl that is also interested in going out with me.
When i go out to clubs i try and get rejected in a really mean way, girls are really rude sometime just for trying to talk to them or dance.
Messaging girls after meeting them either on facebook on cell phone, i never ever ever get a response that shows interest. I tried a lot of stuff, using the stuff on their profile, making jokes, being CF, nothing ever worked.
I don't think i'm ugly, maybe i'm just boring, it's the only conclusion i can get for not having responses.
Been LJBF by a lot of girls, specially one that i really like a lot. And one that i know that if i would have a girlfriend would get really jealous and maybe change her way of thinking. The thing is, i can't go out with any other girls where i live!
It's weird, i've been abroad to brasil and girls were all over me, i literally didn't have to move and girls would come to meet me and sleep with me, everyday, everynight.
You maybe thinking it can also be my inner self. For getting girls you have to be confident and have stuff in your life fixed, goals, etc right? That's the priority, only then girls.
I have lots of money, i am my own boss, i travel every month on vacation to resorts, beaches, etc, i have an amazing car, and i have my own place in front of the beach! And having all this, i can't get a single girl interested in me, and being like this for so long, i'm really getting depressed. I really miss the company of a girlfriend, someone who loves me and shares life with me.
If anyone can help me i'd be most apreciated..