i posted this in another thread, but decided to make it a topic in the hopes of getting a lot of good responses.
so i have been hanging out, on-and-off, with this girl since the middle of last semester. nothing too serious, just having fun. (i have been going on dates with other girls the whole time.)
over the weekend we went out to lunch and then she came back to my dorm. there, she asks me "do you want to be my boyfriend?" then my roommate walks in and i was saved from having to give an answer.
what do i say to that kind of question? friends have told me to do the whole "i'm going through a lot right now and can't handle a committed relationship right now" thing, but i would much rather respond with something else.
i want to keep hanging out with this girl, but i don't want to be in an exclusive relationship. i do like her, but i don't want to be committed to one person. she has been going on dates with other guys, so i was surprised when she asked me to be her boyfriend. i'm not sure what to say to a question like this. if i have to tell her straight up, no, and stop hanging out with her, then i can do that.
i'm just wondering if there are any other replies to her asking me to be her bf other than the "going through a lot right now" one.
so i have been hanging out, on-and-off, with this girl since the middle of last semester. nothing too serious, just having fun. (i have been going on dates with other girls the whole time.)
over the weekend we went out to lunch and then she came back to my dorm. there, she asks me "do you want to be my boyfriend?" then my roommate walks in and i was saved from having to give an answer.
what do i say to that kind of question? friends have told me to do the whole "i'm going through a lot right now and can't handle a committed relationship right now" thing, but i would much rather respond with something else.
i want to keep hanging out with this girl, but i don't want to be in an exclusive relationship. i do like her, but i don't want to be committed to one person. she has been going on dates with other guys, so i was surprised when she asked me to be her boyfriend. i'm not sure what to say to a question like this. if i have to tell her straight up, no, and stop hanging out with her, then i can do that.
i'm just wondering if there are any other replies to her asking me to be her bf other than the "going through a lot right now" one.