Randallpink83
Master Don Juan
Lately I have been hearing this issue come up a lot here on the boards and I'm shocked over and over again at peoples responses on how to deal with them. A lot of misconceptions and painfully wrong views on an actually very simple answer.
Let me give you an example of the wrong way...
Imagine you are the HB. You are out with your friends, enjoying your girls and drinks, taking in all the eye candy around you. You are horny but you really don't care about sex right now (you usually always are horny), as your FB who thinks he's your BF gave you a good Fvck the day before and plus you jilled yourself earlier that day when you were bored.
Then here comes this guy, he opens you, ehh he is somewhat interesting. He seems to be handling himself well, not doing too bad.... But does he really deserve me?? I mean I really don't need this, plus I will have plenty of offers tonight, I might not want it to be him "if" anyone tonight, so lets see what he is made of....
So you test...
"Are you hitting on me?" - - - -> "No, I just thought you looked cool so I thought I would talk to you, what you don't like talking?" <--- FAIL
"Is that a pick-up line?" - - - > "Hah you wish" <--- FAIL
"Why are you talking to me?" - - - > "I'm just being social talking with all sorts of people" <---- FAIL (depending how true it is, we will get back to this)
"Aww you are cute but why not find a girl you could actually get lucky with?" - - - > "I'm not looking to get lucky blah blah blah" <---- MAJOR FAIL
"I came here to just have fun with my girls" - - - -> "Oh ok, well have fun then" walk away <---- Obviously FAIL because you walked away right.
What do all these have in common?
The guy answered LOGICALLY. He REACTED and logically tried to VALIDATE himself.... FAIL...
Lets take it one step further. Lets say HB gives you a hardcore test. You know the type... "Major b!tch shield, screw all these scums trying to get in my pants" type test. To some of you, you might not have heard these type of tests very much... But trust me, if you're approaching as much as me and approaching ALL the hottest girls, you will get these.
She says something like "Out of your league" ... "Sorry but you're not cute" ... "this is girl time, not guy girl time" .... "I have cooties, you don't want to catch them" etc...
Most guys... sorry let me refrain this, most chumps will answer these tests in this type of fashion (most guys = chumps)
"ok your loss" ... This is the most common type of comeback. When you're walking away just imagine how badly she is rolling her eyes "Right my loss. ok loser."
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"pshh, out of your league? you're right, but I'm willing to give you a chance to come up to my league" .... geez that was witty, you showed her!!!
"Whatever, you actually kinda look fat in that dress anyhow" ... remember that ICP song? "Yeah tell her that she's fat, yeah that will get her!" hahaha, dissing her wont work... big difference from neg and diss.
Why don't these answers work for these tests?... REACTIVE... you are being REACTIVE. Logically reactive, she knows shes got you. Honestly most guys will respond with these type of reactions, and even coach others on these boards to react just like this. Most guys naturally do this. They react and TRY and comeback or validate them selfs... "ohhh no she is testing me, I will show her!". The sheer fact that all chumps have this thought process should be first indication that its incorrect.
Going back to the HB we placed ourselves in
... Why was she testing? Cause she wants to make sure you are a MAN. You are worthy. You arent like all the other chumps who will hit on her. Thats pretty basic, I think we all know why its necessary for girls to test us. They get hit on so much they have to create these tests to screen for true MEN.
She will catch your reactions and show it will be so plain to her, out how weak you are. She will see you aren't confident... you are trying too hard.. you emotionally care too much about her already and try to validate yourself. When you react to her bullsh!t it portrays you as lower value.
Saying those things are bad enough, but reacting in that way she will also physically see it on you as well. She will see your eyes change, your body language, your voice.
When it comes to the hardcore tests and you honestly think she is b!tchy and don't want anything to do with her then just walk away (girls can fail your tests too)... You don't have to make yourself look bad by saying "phhh your loss" ... She will see right through your sh!t and know its weak. And worst of all when guys get blown off and they are walking away and yell "B!tch!" over their shoulders... It doesn't get any chumpier then that. If you can't handle rejections and b!tch shields without getting offended you have a lot of inner attitude to work on. It's usually nothing personal anyhow, they are just protecting them selfs from chumps, why fall into their world? You're just proving what they think! All chumps just keep reinforcing the need for sh!t tests.
Let me give you an example of the wrong way...
Imagine you are the HB. You are out with your friends, enjoying your girls and drinks, taking in all the eye candy around you. You are horny but you really don't care about sex right now (you usually always are horny), as your FB who thinks he's your BF gave you a good Fvck the day before and plus you jilled yourself earlier that day when you were bored.
Then here comes this guy, he opens you, ehh he is somewhat interesting. He seems to be handling himself well, not doing too bad.... But does he really deserve me?? I mean I really don't need this, plus I will have plenty of offers tonight, I might not want it to be him "if" anyone tonight, so lets see what he is made of....
So you test...
"Are you hitting on me?" - - - -> "No, I just thought you looked cool so I thought I would talk to you, what you don't like talking?" <--- FAIL
"Is that a pick-up line?" - - - > "Hah you wish" <--- FAIL
"Why are you talking to me?" - - - > "I'm just being social talking with all sorts of people" <---- FAIL (depending how true it is, we will get back to this)
"Aww you are cute but why not find a girl you could actually get lucky with?" - - - > "I'm not looking to get lucky blah blah blah" <---- MAJOR FAIL
"I came here to just have fun with my girls" - - - -> "Oh ok, well have fun then" walk away <---- Obviously FAIL because you walked away right.
What do all these have in common?
The guy answered LOGICALLY. He REACTED and logically tried to VALIDATE himself.... FAIL...
Lets take it one step further. Lets say HB gives you a hardcore test. You know the type... "Major b!tch shield, screw all these scums trying to get in my pants" type test. To some of you, you might not have heard these type of tests very much... But trust me, if you're approaching as much as me and approaching ALL the hottest girls, you will get these.
She says something like "Out of your league" ... "Sorry but you're not cute" ... "this is girl time, not guy girl time" .... "I have cooties, you don't want to catch them" etc...
Most guys... sorry let me refrain this, most chumps will answer these tests in this type of fashion (most guys = chumps)
"ok your loss" ... This is the most common type of comeback. When you're walking away just imagine how badly she is rolling her eyes "Right my loss. ok loser."
.
"pshh, out of your league? you're right, but I'm willing to give you a chance to come up to my league" .... geez that was witty, you showed her!!!
"Whatever, you actually kinda look fat in that dress anyhow" ... remember that ICP song? "Yeah tell her that she's fat, yeah that will get her!" hahaha, dissing her wont work... big difference from neg and diss.
Why don't these answers work for these tests?... REACTIVE... you are being REACTIVE. Logically reactive, she knows shes got you. Honestly most guys will respond with these type of reactions, and even coach others on these boards to react just like this. Most guys naturally do this. They react and TRY and comeback or validate them selfs... "ohhh no she is testing me, I will show her!". The sheer fact that all chumps have this thought process should be first indication that its incorrect.
Going back to the HB we placed ourselves in
... Why was she testing? Cause she wants to make sure you are a MAN. You are worthy. You arent like all the other chumps who will hit on her. Thats pretty basic, I think we all know why its necessary for girls to test us. They get hit on so much they have to create these tests to screen for true MEN.
She will catch your reactions and show it will be so plain to her, out how weak you are. She will see you aren't confident... you are trying too hard.. you emotionally care too much about her already and try to validate yourself. When you react to her bullsh!t it portrays you as lower value.
Saying those things are bad enough, but reacting in that way she will also physically see it on you as well. She will see your eyes change, your body language, your voice.
When it comes to the hardcore tests and you honestly think she is b!tchy and don't want anything to do with her then just walk away (girls can fail your tests too)... You don't have to make yourself look bad by saying "phhh your loss" ... She will see right through your sh!t and know its weak. And worst of all when guys get blown off and they are walking away and yell "B!tch!" over their shoulders... It doesn't get any chumpier then that. If you can't handle rejections and b!tch shields without getting offended you have a lot of inner attitude to work on. It's usually nothing personal anyhow, they are just protecting them selfs from chumps, why fall into their world? You're just proving what they think! All chumps just keep reinforcing the need for sh!t tests.
