daygameguy
Master Don Juan
Hi fellas,
this is going to be my first ever shot at an approach journal. I needed to do this, to keep myself motivated, and gauge my improvement by looking back to this thread.
I don't expect a lot from this. Life right now, it's pretty crazy. I got my a$$ to a new state, got nobody to call a friend, practicing for a drive test with a permit in my pocket, going to a 9-5 job everyday.
Don't get the wrong impression here. I am perfectly happy with my life. I don't need the validation of sex or pu$$y to validate the fact that my life is a gift to me.
But that doesn't mean I can laze away, and not give my best shot at life.
I used to be pretty crazy in So Cal, you know, had fun, even though I was in a grad level engg course. So it's a change to be here, standing on my own feet, earning my own bread and butter. Feels kind of good, i don't know, feels a bit masculine, if I really think positively about it.
Well anyway, I know it's a long shot but here is a shout out for wings:
WINGS/BUDDIES WANTED! NYC/Long Island/Nassau/NYState!
I hope someone turns up seeing this message. Otherwise I gotta keep trying solo.
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My first few approaches in NY (long island, Roosevelt Mall, its right next to my office btw
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1 set:
Go in, she is a high school girl, I say I just arrived in NY, she was smiling, my body language was good, asked her about clubs, but she didn't know much, her cute little girlfriend came along, I was like "Hi" *small hand wave motion*. She was smiling too. I ejected, you know the reasons I suppose. Anyway, moving on..
2 girls set (one with a baby):
I go in, ask for some advice on female accessories for my sister, they were open and nice throughout the convo, actually gave a really honest advice tbh, but no targets there, so I eject.
1 set (older woman, was hard to tell from afar):
I go in, ask for something random, but she keeps walking so I stand my ground, greet her, and eject.
1 set:
I go in for a haircut appointment, talk to the hired gun, tell her I am new to the place, ask for fun places to hangout at, she says she doesn't do a lot of fun stuff and has 1 best friend from college, I demonstrated some true value with my educational background and work etc, she was like "wow" brushing her hair good times . But didn't FEEL a real potential there. So I eject. Going for a haircut tomorrow though, but eh.. just gonna be cool, she's aint a target.
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Well that's all for now. Please help with feedback, suggestions, etc.
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Extras:
1. I noticed that I have a natural tendency to give value (in a good way) which puts people at ease. I tend to be a lot crazy if you put me in a club with a Budweiser.
2. I think I speak slowly with a clam tonality, which is essential during day game, to avoid that salesman vibe.
3. I was not shaved, was formally dressed, and tired, but followed my decision to approach people, and felt good about it. *patting my back*
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Lets see how crazy things get here lol. Wish me luck!
this is going to be my first ever shot at an approach journal. I needed to do this, to keep myself motivated, and gauge my improvement by looking back to this thread.
I don't expect a lot from this. Life right now, it's pretty crazy. I got my a$$ to a new state, got nobody to call a friend, practicing for a drive test with a permit in my pocket, going to a 9-5 job everyday.
Don't get the wrong impression here. I am perfectly happy with my life. I don't need the validation of sex or pu$$y to validate the fact that my life is a gift to me.
But that doesn't mean I can laze away, and not give my best shot at life.
I used to be pretty crazy in So Cal, you know, had fun, even though I was in a grad level engg course. So it's a change to be here, standing on my own feet, earning my own bread and butter. Feels kind of good, i don't know, feels a bit masculine, if I really think positively about it.
Well anyway, I know it's a long shot but here is a shout out for wings:
WINGS/BUDDIES WANTED! NYC/Long Island/Nassau/NYState!
I hope someone turns up seeing this message. Otherwise I gotta keep trying solo.
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My first few approaches in NY (long island, Roosevelt Mall, its right next to my office btw
)1 set:
Go in, she is a high school girl, I say I just arrived in NY, she was smiling, my body language was good, asked her about clubs, but she didn't know much, her cute little girlfriend came along, I was like "Hi" *small hand wave motion*. She was smiling too. I ejected, you know the reasons I suppose. Anyway, moving on..
2 girls set (one with a baby):
I go in, ask for some advice on female accessories for my sister, they were open and nice throughout the convo, actually gave a really honest advice tbh, but no targets there, so I eject.
1 set (older woman, was hard to tell from afar):
I go in, ask for something random, but she keeps walking so I stand my ground, greet her, and eject.
1 set:
I go in for a haircut appointment, talk to the hired gun, tell her I am new to the place, ask for fun places to hangout at, she says she doesn't do a lot of fun stuff and has 1 best friend from college, I demonstrated some true value with my educational background and work etc, she was like "wow" brushing her hair
good times . But didn't FEEL a real potential there. So I eject. Going for a haircut tomorrow though, but eh.. just gonna be cool, she's aint a target.---------------------
Well that's all for now. Please help with feedback, suggestions, etc.
----------------------
Extras:
1. I noticed that I have a natural tendency to give value (in a good way) which puts people at ease. I tend to be a lot crazy if you put me in a club with a Budweiser.
2. I think I speak slowly with a clam tonality, which is essential during day game, to avoid that salesman vibe.
3. I was not shaved, was formally dressed, and tired, but followed my decision to approach people, and felt good about it. *patting my back*
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Lets see how crazy things get here lol. Wish me luck!
