I've been reading these boards for a long time, and I admit I've been really slow about getting over my AFC hurdles, but I'm doing pretty well now in the world o' dating. This is my first post.
Anyway, i tried searching for this first and looked through the bible and various articles... I apologize if i missed it..
But, i was wondering what are the rules concerning meeting a girl and having sex with her on the same night? I met her through a friend of mine's girl he's been dating during a little social gathering of about 15 people and from the very beginning of the night i laid C&F on her and it worked like a charm like usual. This is actually my first time I met someone and had sex with her THAT fast (i was always against it before for whatever reason) so i don't know what i'm supposed to do. I woke up in the morning with her and ended up at lunch and my friend and i dropped the 2 girls off after that and went home. I was dumb and didn't really think to get a phone number and only have her AIM name.
What am i supposed to do the next day? Do i treat it as a normal phone number and wait a few days or am i supposed to make some exception to the rule since I had sex with her that fast? Do i just let her wonder whether i'm going to contact her back? I don't want her thinking it was just a ONS... or do I? =p I feel like i should just be like hey what's up i had fun last night and chit chat for 2 minutes.. get her number and call back a couple days later to set something else up.
Oh, i'm not looking for a LTR with her.. just casual dating and hookups for now.
thanks
Anyway, i tried searching for this first and looked through the bible and various articles... I apologize if i missed it..
But, i was wondering what are the rules concerning meeting a girl and having sex with her on the same night? I met her through a friend of mine's girl he's been dating during a little social gathering of about 15 people and from the very beginning of the night i laid C&F on her and it worked like a charm like usual. This is actually my first time I met someone and had sex with her THAT fast (i was always against it before for whatever reason) so i don't know what i'm supposed to do. I woke up in the morning with her and ended up at lunch and my friend and i dropped the 2 girls off after that and went home. I was dumb and didn't really think to get a phone number and only have her AIM name.
What am i supposed to do the next day? Do i treat it as a normal phone number and wait a few days or am i supposed to make some exception to the rule since I had sex with her that fast? Do i just let her wonder whether i'm going to contact her back? I don't want her thinking it was just a ONS... or do I? =p I feel like i should just be like hey what's up i had fun last night and chit chat for 2 minutes.. get her number and call back a couple days later to set something else up.
Oh, i'm not looking for a LTR with her.. just casual dating and hookups for now.
thanks