I certainly am not having much luck with guys at the moment. I had been dating this guy for a few weeks now. I know he had only been intimiate with two women (both ltr) before and there were a lot of things he hadnt tried. So, we got talking and I would talk him through different ways of doing things and that there was so much he could try when he was ready.
So Monday night we go out, book a hotel and its time to do the deed. We are kissing and cuddling all the way up to the hotel room. I go to the ladies, put on this sexy black lace top and matching thong with lace top stockings and suspenders, finishing the outfit of with a devilishly high pair of heels, walk over to him, sit him down on the bed while sitting on his knee and start kissing him. I push him back undo his pants and lick his rock hard soldier. He stops me half way and says he needs the toilet. He comes out a few minutes later looking for his keys which he thinks he left at the hotel reception and goes down to get them. About ten minutes later i get a text saying i cant do this and i am really sorry, so i try calling him and he wont pick up. He texts me again saying i am really sorry, i am scared and all shook up in the car. I ask him to come back up so we can talk and there is no pressure on him to do anything and he didnt. I got dressed and went downstairs and asked him if i could come over for a chat and he said yes, then he said no. He had truly lost the plot. I left him to it then and just left.
He sent some mumbled texts but i cant figure out what was wrong with him.
I contacted him 24 hours later asking for an explanation and got nothing. What a fvcking waste of time and effort. I need sympathy.
Moral of the story: I shouldnt date sexually inexperienced guys, particularly those who arent adventurous.
Its two days later and I am still so worked up over it grrrrrrrrhhhh
How could i have handled this situation better?
So Monday night we go out, book a hotel and its time to do the deed. We are kissing and cuddling all the way up to the hotel room. I go to the ladies, put on this sexy black lace top and matching thong with lace top stockings and suspenders, finishing the outfit of with a devilishly high pair of heels, walk over to him, sit him down on the bed while sitting on his knee and start kissing him. I push him back undo his pants and lick his rock hard soldier. He stops me half way and says he needs the toilet. He comes out a few minutes later looking for his keys which he thinks he left at the hotel reception and goes down to get them. About ten minutes later i get a text saying i cant do this and i am really sorry, so i try calling him and he wont pick up. He texts me again saying i am really sorry, i am scared and all shook up in the car. I ask him to come back up so we can talk and there is no pressure on him to do anything and he didnt. I got dressed and went downstairs and asked him if i could come over for a chat and he said yes, then he said no. He had truly lost the plot. I left him to it then and just left.
He sent some mumbled texts but i cant figure out what was wrong with him.
I contacted him 24 hours later asking for an explanation and got nothing. What a fvcking waste of time and effort. I need sympathy.
Moral of the story: I shouldnt date sexually inexperienced guys, particularly those who arent adventurous.
Its two days later and I am still so worked up over it grrrrrrrrhhhh
How could i have handled this situation better?
