(I'm 60, guys) It took over a year, cost several k $ to get lots of smart, beautiful '20 somthings" (with no kids) to ym and email me on a daily basis. Then it cost several k more for roundtrip airfare ( for me and her), several k to live in Phills for 6 months and thoroughly "check out" the 1/2 dozen "candidates" that I had "lined-up" before I went there. All those women knew that I insisted that my bride train hard at the karate and shooting, but only 2 really went at it the way I demanded, and the Mrs is the best in bed. I figure that she'll drop me when she's become a US citizen (4 more years) but hey, I'll have had the BEST for 5 years, and there's more where she came from. I got a vasectomy long ago, so that risk is not present.