When you have built some rapport start leading the conversation in these directions and you will experience some remarkable results. Not only will this lead to some interesting conversation but it will also build comfort and attraction. The purpose of these storys is to make your girl feel a variety of different emotions while trying to get her to relate to the experiences. Try to be honest if you are using genuine storys, it comes accross as more authentic and will also make you feel better because it shows that the girl is interested in you as a person instead of being interested in your material.
If you chose not to Read everything in this post You must read the bit about Nostalgia I made this discovery today when listening to a song by the killers with the lyrics " when you were young" as soon as i heard these lyrics i experience a strong feeling of nostalgia and something went click inside my head, im so excited i realised how powerful this can be if used properly and want to share it with you guys!
1) Excitement. Talk about a time you went on an adventure, it could be anything from a holiday to a camping trip, anything at all as long as its interesting. Get her to relate by asking her if shes has ever been on an adventure / fun trip / amazing holiday before.
2) Fear(not too much
). Talk about a film that scared the **** out of you. The time you sleep walked as a kid, woke up in a cupboard and thought you had been kidnapped and thrown in a box. Tell her if you have some sorta irrational phobia. For example " I may be a boxer but I am totally **** scared of spiders, when i see one i totally **** myself! If i seen one now i would scream! Once I was sitting at my computer desk talking to someone on msn and i felt something in my hair. I brushed my hand through my hair and couldnt find anything, I thought it was my imagination. Then I looked at the way above my monitor and see this huge ****in spider! I swear i heard it hiss. I ran out of my room screaming MUM!. She sprays the room with fly and wasp killer and I wait for 5 minutes before re-entering the room. As soon as the door opens this huge ****in spider runs at me, I scream and my mum stomps on its head. It must have smelled my fear because i swear the ****er was running at me." - This sorta thing will usually get the girl to laugh at you and tease you about being afraid of something so irrational. If she is also afraid of the same thing you are you can relate experinces. When you show a weakness to a girl she respects / trusts you more. It shows her that you are still confident even if you do have some weaknesses. Superman wouldnt be superman without a weakness. Tell her about your kryptonite.
3) Love - Heres an example. When I was a kid i fell in love with this girl and I couldnt pluck up the courage to speak to her. I genuinally thought when I grow up i would get married to her and we would live happily ever after. Unfortunatly it didnt work out that way. A few weeks after i decided i fell in love with her she had to move schools and I havnt seen her again since. Her friend told me after she left how much she liked me and I felt gutted for weeks after that. When I found this out i made a promise to myself. I promised myself if i liked a girl i would tell her i did.
4) Nostalgia - This is so powerful its unbeliveable. I have accidently induced this feelings in guys and girls and noticed how they become excited when talking about it especially if they can relate to it! I remember a time i was sitting with a girl and I spoke to her about cremola foam and how they should bring it back. Immediatly she grabbed my hand, smiles and screams YES YES! I loved that! Then we started talking about other things that we loved that you cant get anymore. So! Talk about something you used to get but dont get anymore. For example, sweets, cartoons, shoes, drinks, anything at all really! Over exaggerate how good they were and how you wish they brought it back out again.
If you chose not to Read everything in this post You must read the bit about Nostalgia I made this discovery today when listening to a song by the killers with the lyrics " when you were young" as soon as i heard these lyrics i experience a strong feeling of nostalgia and something went click inside my head, im so excited i realised how powerful this can be if used properly and want to share it with you guys!
1) Excitement. Talk about a time you went on an adventure, it could be anything from a holiday to a camping trip, anything at all as long as its interesting. Get her to relate by asking her if shes has ever been on an adventure / fun trip / amazing holiday before.
2) Fear(not too much
). Talk about a film that scared the **** out of you. The time you sleep walked as a kid, woke up in a cupboard and thought you had been kidnapped and thrown in a box. Tell her if you have some sorta irrational phobia. For example " I may be a boxer but I am totally **** scared of spiders, when i see one i totally **** myself! If i seen one now i would scream! Once I was sitting at my computer desk talking to someone on msn and i felt something in my hair. I brushed my hand through my hair and couldnt find anything, I thought it was my imagination. Then I looked at the way above my monitor and see this huge ****in spider! I swear i heard it hiss. I ran out of my room screaming MUM!. She sprays the room with fly and wasp killer and I wait for 5 minutes before re-entering the room. As soon as the door opens this huge ****in spider runs at me, I scream and my mum stomps on its head. It must have smelled my fear because i swear the ****er was running at me." - This sorta thing will usually get the girl to laugh at you and tease you about being afraid of something so irrational. If she is also afraid of the same thing you are you can relate experinces. When you show a weakness to a girl she respects / trusts you more. It shows her that you are still confident even if you do have some weaknesses. Superman wouldnt be superman without a weakness. Tell her about your kryptonite. 3) Love - Heres an example. When I was a kid i fell in love with this girl and I couldnt pluck up the courage to speak to her. I genuinally thought when I grow up i would get married to her and we would live happily ever after. Unfortunatly it didnt work out that way. A few weeks after i decided i fell in love with her she had to move schools and I havnt seen her again since. Her friend told me after she left how much she liked me and I felt gutted for weeks after that. When I found this out i made a promise to myself. I promised myself if i liked a girl i would tell her i did.
4) Nostalgia - This is so powerful its unbeliveable. I have accidently induced this feelings in guys and girls and noticed how they become excited when talking about it especially if they can relate to it! I remember a time i was sitting with a girl and I spoke to her about cremola foam and how they should bring it back. Immediatly she grabbed my hand, smiles and screams YES YES! I loved that! Then we started talking about other things that we loved that you cant get anymore. So! Talk about something you used to get but dont get anymore. For example, sweets, cartoons, shoes, drinks, anything at all really! Over exaggerate how good they were and how you wish they brought it back out again.
