Mintbanana
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I've known a girl in my art classes for about a year. She goes to a different school, and has been busy for most of the year. I liked her, so I asked her out on a date one day. She accepts, but later texts me "Wait, you're not actually interested in me, right?". I respond with "How about you tell me?", and she replies with a long text that she specified I was not to be hurt by. Within it is a short paragraph detailing how she has never been in a relationship, will not be in a relationship unless she really "loves" someone, and in general go by her parents rules. I respond by confessing, and telling her that my feelings are ones that cannot be changed. She then changes her tone, apparently impressed, and says "she didn't say no to the date", and "will try her best" for me even though she has never been one one. However, she shows up on the date with 2 friends, and somehow friendzones me in the middle of it and calls it off, claiming I've been overly "dominant". How do I: 1) Recover from the fact that I may have rubbed off as desperate, if necessary; and 2) Get her to consider me as more than a friend, keeping in mind that I've already confessed?