Thanks Masculinity, 411 and nyc123, I completely agree I am coming on pretty strong, but the windows are short to make a move. I have 2-3 days to land one of these girls before we break up and go home. Im going to focus on Frenchy but I have to add a very random and funny experience this morning.
It was stuffy in my hotel room so after breakfast I went for a walk in the park. There was a girl on her own passing me in the park that I didnt recognize. I just walk on by and she stops me and takes off her large sun glasses. Its Austrian girl! what!
AG: Hey *stops walking and takes off sun glasses*
DB: Really? Its you?
AG: Yes its me
What are you doing?
DG: Its stuffy in my hotel room so I decided to go for a walk. What about you?
AG: Yeah me too I was taking a walk by the river.
DB: Did you stay on much later last night?
AG: I stayed on an hour more and got dinner at my hotel.
DB: Where is your hotel?
AG: Its the <hotel> over (bla bla bla)
DB: Have you done any shopping yet, what are you planning to visit?
AG: Not sure yet Im just walking around.
(silence while I think of locations)
DB: Well theres nothing out that way (the direction she was going), Its a bit of a walk from here but I could take you to the cathedral?
AG: No I think I will take in the park
DB: Your so boring, SO boring your impossible! (playful tone)
AG: ahahahaha
DB: *starts walking away* See you
AG: bye
It was pretty early so first of all I caught her in the act of BS. I didnt call her on it or bring it up because I already knew what she meant. Additionally she warm approached me in the park and initiated contact even though she rejected me last night? I decided to leave the conversation on my own terms because she wasnt making much sense, I was surprised she stopped me. Anyway, as you can see I made no suggestions about seeing her at dinner later or whatever I just kept moving. I decided not to haggle her for a reason why shes giving so much resistance as that would definitely end in a ****block boyfriend excuse.
Maybe I could of done more with this but Im starting to lose attraction to this girl, the next time she gives me resistance Im tempted to try and kiss her to cut the BS. Unfortunately because shes work related that would be a dumb idea so I have to play cool and just ignore her somewhat at this point.
I find this funny because we are both in different hotels and there are many walks through the park and things to do in the town, the odds of this encounter happening were infinity low.
nyc123: This is a self-improvement forum also, as long as there are questions and your not just being 'egotistical' people will help you out.