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oneboy21

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I came across a weird situation yesterday
I was talking with a girl on okcupid .com and we had a normal coversation
she was new to the city just like me, and she was bored at home as i am,
so after a 30 minute talk i suggested we should get together.
when i said that she just disappeared, she went silent and didn't talk to me.
the next day(Sunday), she im's me and says sorry about yesterday.
i told her it was rude for her to ignore me like that, she tells me she felt awkward talking to me because i was Indian. she tells me its her first time talking to some one like me. i forgived her and suggested we should meet. she told me she would let me know.
i asked her number, for which she gave me.

how do you guys deal with a situation like this
 

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You got all emotional and called her rude for ending an internet conversation?

You gotta loosen up, man. You dont even know this broad.

Secondly, if she has prejudice what can you do about it? It's not your job to make her into a decent, accepting human being.

If she agrees to meet you, then obviously you should continue to do whatever has been successful for you. If not, then f**k it.
 

oneboy21

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i called her rude the next day when she imed me
so true, i am not going to tolerate it dude.
 

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oneboy21 said:
i called her rude the next day when she imed me
so true, i am not going to tolerate it dude.
Tolerate what? Some girl you don't know ending a conversation with you?

You think she owes you a "Good night. Sweet dreams?" If some chick got mad at me for something like that, I'd tell her to f**k herself. If I've never even met her, I don't owe her sh*t.

Maybe I'm just numb to this stuff, but...who cares?

I'm just saying, you're not going to get far with this whole "dating" lifestyle if you're emotional about small things like this.
 

pdx1138

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Women do this all the time with online dating.

Get used to "rude women."
 

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Im with OP. A girl abruptly ending a convo because of my ethnicity is a huge red flag.
 
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