One of the biggest mistakes that people who participate in an affair is that they tend to alter their behavior patterns. The moment you change your normal routine, suspicion arousal is triggered. Women are intuitive at times and even if you don’t say a word, you sub-consciously project “some thing’s up”.
People who keep things private and secretive (password protect everything, encrypt their emails, etc) are most likely trying to hide something. This is s recipe for arguments, resentment, suspicion, and disaster.
An old trick was to change phone contacts names. Examples: Jackie would be changed to Jack, Billie-Bill, Pattie-Pat, Louise-Lou, etc. You could also use initials or insert Mr. In front of their name; Mr. Kelly, Mr. Denise, etc.
You could also try adding or subtracting a digit or two to your contacts digits, that way if your partner goes through your contact list, they won’t have their real number and can’t contact them. You can dismiss “wrong” numbers by saying it must be an old number.
Be readily available!. Anytime you are not reachable for prolonged periods of time, people may think the worst. The philosophy appears sound “I didn’t know where you were, thought you might be dead or in an accident, I was worried, etc” but in reality it’s a trust issue.
Opt to have a paperless phone bill, be sure to delete your net bill to conceal your numerous text messages to the same number. Basically you should strive to avoid anything traceable and as technology enhances, mis-direction and concealment will be challenging.
Make sure you keep details or specifics to a bare minimum from your fling. You want to avoid them black-mailing you or informing your significant other if things don’t go their way.
People who keep things private and secretive (password protect everything, encrypt their emails, etc) are most likely trying to hide something. This is s recipe for arguments, resentment, suspicion, and disaster.
An old trick was to change phone contacts names. Examples: Jackie would be changed to Jack, Billie-Bill, Pattie-Pat, Louise-Lou, etc. You could also use initials or insert Mr. In front of their name; Mr. Kelly, Mr. Denise, etc.
You could also try adding or subtracting a digit or two to your contacts digits, that way if your partner goes through your contact list, they won’t have their real number and can’t contact them. You can dismiss “wrong” numbers by saying it must be an old number.
Be readily available!. Anytime you are not reachable for prolonged periods of time, people may think the worst. The philosophy appears sound “I didn’t know where you were, thought you might be dead or in an accident, I was worried, etc” but in reality it’s a trust issue.
Opt to have a paperless phone bill, be sure to delete your net bill to conceal your numerous text messages to the same number. Basically you should strive to avoid anything traceable and as technology enhances, mis-direction and concealment will be challenging.
Make sure you keep details or specifics to a bare minimum from your fling. You want to avoid them black-mailing you or informing your significant other if things don’t go their way.
