A simple fact that DJ’s – even some of the best DJ’s – don’t seem to realize: Changing yourself is not about hitting on girls. Changing yourself is not about working out hard on a gym, or losing weight if you’re fat. I get totally PISSED OFF sometimes when I read the DJ Bible, because there’s just something missing there. For some reason I get the feeling that some people who have written there haven’t really gone through any kind of a big change in their life.
Have you been here for months, reading the Bible and believing that it’ll get your life in order? Well, let me tell you something – let me tell all of you something. The change does not happen in our ability to hit on women, but instead, in our character. Only a few people here talk about how important is your CHARACTER if you want to be a DJ. Actually, your CHARACTER is the ONLY important thing. And your character does not change by first boosting your ego with Pook’s writings and then getting a phone number from some hottie. Your character does not ask YOU, what you want it to be! That’s why reading the texts in the DJ Bible won’t really change you in the end; they will make you feel good about yourself for a while, but it disappears.
So, what am I talking about? I’m talking about how the change comes from within. Not from the DJ Bible, not from Booook of Pooook, but from your CHARACTER. If this hasn’t happened, if you belong to that big DJ group who always have to return to the DJ Bible to get a boost-up or to get a reminder about the right techniques – then in the end, you’re still no better than a dumb and pathetic AFC. Your character hasn’t changed.
How does your character work? It includes your self-image and the way you view the world. And those, my friends, are hard to change, since they are in automatic part of your brains. They’re in the “limbic system”, in the very centre of your brains, if someone is interested in the psychological shyte. It’s in the sub-consciousness, and therefore, it’s hard to change it simply by being conscious about the fact that you want to change yourself and your life. Psychological tests show us that the character doesn’t want to be changed – it won’t give in, when you demand it to be different.
It’s hard to change it, and yet, it is VITAL. Why? Because if there is a conflict between your character and your life, then it’s a shallow and uncomplete life. Same goes for DJ’ing – and I’m telling you, there are MANY DJ’s who would turn into complete AFC’s if they spent a year away from this site! You need TIME to change your character - You cannot learn and adopt life-changing things in a month or two.
What, you still haven’t got a clue of what I’m talking about? Maybe you’d like some examples? All right, I’ll give you some examples:
When I found the DJ site two years ago, I was a huge fatazz. Immediately I wanted to start losing weight. But every time I managed to drop my weight, I would gain it all back. A year ago I completely changed my eating customs into healthier direction. Now I’m not fat at all anymore. The reason why I first failed: it made me HAPPY to lose weight. Therefore, I lost more and faster. That made me happier. Then, when I’d stop losing weight, I would realize that I wasn’t eating what I wanted to and returned to my old eating habits. Puff! I was all fat again. Then I realized, that it SHOULDN’T make me that happy to lose weight. Instead of taking it as a competition, instead of respecting slimness and good shapes, I started respecting myself as I was. Quess what happened? I started to lose my weight SLOWLY. You see, as I started to respect myself, healthiness automatically became a way of life to me. I didn’t care anymore was I fat or not. I had a huge revelation (I still don’t now where it came from) that I should respect myself. It took me 6 months to get into normal figures – but none of the fat came back, and it’s never coming back, since I live a healthy life now. Calculating calories just isn’t the way to do it – no offence to you, whoever write the weight-losing program in the health-section, but it simply won’t work. You get obsessed, and your character doesn’t have time to adopt your “new self”. Self image, you see, changes too slowly.
Another story: Lot of weight lifters here? I bench-press. I realized that if you work hard and take extremely heavy weights with only a couple of lifts, then you can really, really fast improve the amount of weight you can lift. But if you spent two months away from the gym, you can’t lift sh*t, you basically have to start all over again. However, if you take many lifts at once with less weight, your strength will increase very slowly but efficiently. If you don’t try to get good results too fast, you can make this thing too more as a way of life than as a thing you must be the best at. And then if you spent a month away from the gym, you realize that you are still just as strong as you were before leaving!
Point of the story: Quick approach and quick studying will leave your skills on the issue quite shallow. Many of the DJ’s take their life as a competition; goal is to always be better than other men, because “that is what makes man a DJ!” And still, many wise DJ’s have said that “you are not good because you are better than others, you are good simply because you are good!”
See the difference? When you live your life as a DJ, you stop comparing yourself with others! You stop asking other people, what they think about you – because you are alone with your character. And still, there are and there will always be Don Juans who ask: “What clothes would look good on me?” What’s the matter, my fellow DJ’s? Are you afraid to know what is within you? If not, then why are you taking all this as a competition, and thus, end up in a situation when you want as much as possible as fast as possible (compare this to my weight losing)!
This is not a competition. This is a way of life. And still some people want to decrease the number of newbies coming here in fear of competition!
This is not a competition. This is a way of life. Because the change comes from within.
I had forgotten the perfect and unconditional respect towards myself and my environment. That’s why it didn’t became a way of life, but a competition: winning the competition made me feel good, and I wanted to feel good all the time, that’s why I didn’t lose weight as slowly as it should happen in order to be permanent. Then I realized that I was doing the same mistake in adopting the DJ stuff into my life! My DJ’ing didn’t end up in a catastrophe, but I didn’t find any kind of permanent happiness, either. I couldn’t make DJ’ing a way of life for me, I couldn’t adopt it as a part of my character. I had forgotten respect. You feeling good must not come from you getting a phone number of a hottie or losing weight fast. It must come from somewhere else – it mus come from your CHARACTER, which you must build and modify ALL THE TIME. That’s when you can truly talk about self-respect; that’s when you can truly adopt new things into your ways of life.
But look at the people at this forum! The RESPECT is missing from so many people… too many, if you ask me! People have adopted the aggressive aspects of being a DJ. And why not, that is the easy part. But every time I see someone b!tching how “every woman is a b!tch”, I think to myself: That DJ wouldn’t say that if the AFC within still wouldn’t remember all the humiliations. That AFC lives in the character of a DJ… and the character, apparently, still remains the same no matter how much the DJ has tried to change himself. Sure, some might say that this DJ just has “the right attitude”. But then again, many great DJ’s have said that a real DJ respects not only himself but also women. “The right attitude” is good to learn, but it must be learned with RESPECT. It must be adopted as a way of life!
So, how exactly do we alter out character, and our ways of life? Well, why don’t you start by accepting the fact that you are not perfect – for heaven’s sakes, there is nothing more boring than perfect people! Accept the fact, that the universe doesn’t run around you, so you can start truly exploring – not only the world outside, but also what is inside of you! Instead of blindly following the DJ techniques, learn some other techniques too and see for yourself what works for the best – because that is the only way to truly learn and adopt these techniques deeply. Explore everything with curiosity, including what is within you, and thus give yourself the character you need and deserve, make the change that has to be done in order to truly be a DJ. Then, if you still believe in the sayings of this site, it will become your way of living. As long as the change within you has happened. It must be adopted into your CHARACTER! AND THE DJ BIBLE SAYS NOTHING ABOUT THIS!!!
This is not a competition. This is a way of life.
Life is not a competition, Living is a way of life. This is not as simple as it sounds (it took me years to accept this fact). It is a long journey. But the journey can also be fun as hell.
Have you been here for months, reading the Bible and believing that it’ll get your life in order? Well, let me tell you something – let me tell all of you something. The change does not happen in our ability to hit on women, but instead, in our character. Only a few people here talk about how important is your CHARACTER if you want to be a DJ. Actually, your CHARACTER is the ONLY important thing. And your character does not change by first boosting your ego with Pook’s writings and then getting a phone number from some hottie. Your character does not ask YOU, what you want it to be! That’s why reading the texts in the DJ Bible won’t really change you in the end; they will make you feel good about yourself for a while, but it disappears.
So, what am I talking about? I’m talking about how the change comes from within. Not from the DJ Bible, not from Booook of Pooook, but from your CHARACTER. If this hasn’t happened, if you belong to that big DJ group who always have to return to the DJ Bible to get a boost-up or to get a reminder about the right techniques – then in the end, you’re still no better than a dumb and pathetic AFC. Your character hasn’t changed.
How does your character work? It includes your self-image and the way you view the world. And those, my friends, are hard to change, since they are in automatic part of your brains. They’re in the “limbic system”, in the very centre of your brains, if someone is interested in the psychological shyte. It’s in the sub-consciousness, and therefore, it’s hard to change it simply by being conscious about the fact that you want to change yourself and your life. Psychological tests show us that the character doesn’t want to be changed – it won’t give in, when you demand it to be different.
It’s hard to change it, and yet, it is VITAL. Why? Because if there is a conflict between your character and your life, then it’s a shallow and uncomplete life. Same goes for DJ’ing – and I’m telling you, there are MANY DJ’s who would turn into complete AFC’s if they spent a year away from this site! You need TIME to change your character - You cannot learn and adopt life-changing things in a month or two.
What, you still haven’t got a clue of what I’m talking about? Maybe you’d like some examples? All right, I’ll give you some examples:
When I found the DJ site two years ago, I was a huge fatazz. Immediately I wanted to start losing weight. But every time I managed to drop my weight, I would gain it all back. A year ago I completely changed my eating customs into healthier direction. Now I’m not fat at all anymore. The reason why I first failed: it made me HAPPY to lose weight. Therefore, I lost more and faster. That made me happier. Then, when I’d stop losing weight, I would realize that I wasn’t eating what I wanted to and returned to my old eating habits. Puff! I was all fat again. Then I realized, that it SHOULDN’T make me that happy to lose weight. Instead of taking it as a competition, instead of respecting slimness and good shapes, I started respecting myself as I was. Quess what happened? I started to lose my weight SLOWLY. You see, as I started to respect myself, healthiness automatically became a way of life to me. I didn’t care anymore was I fat or not. I had a huge revelation (I still don’t now where it came from) that I should respect myself. It took me 6 months to get into normal figures – but none of the fat came back, and it’s never coming back, since I live a healthy life now. Calculating calories just isn’t the way to do it – no offence to you, whoever write the weight-losing program in the health-section, but it simply won’t work. You get obsessed, and your character doesn’t have time to adopt your “new self”. Self image, you see, changes too slowly.
Another story: Lot of weight lifters here? I bench-press. I realized that if you work hard and take extremely heavy weights with only a couple of lifts, then you can really, really fast improve the amount of weight you can lift. But if you spent two months away from the gym, you can’t lift sh*t, you basically have to start all over again. However, if you take many lifts at once with less weight, your strength will increase very slowly but efficiently. If you don’t try to get good results too fast, you can make this thing too more as a way of life than as a thing you must be the best at. And then if you spent a month away from the gym, you realize that you are still just as strong as you were before leaving!
Point of the story: Quick approach and quick studying will leave your skills on the issue quite shallow. Many of the DJ’s take their life as a competition; goal is to always be better than other men, because “that is what makes man a DJ!” And still, many wise DJ’s have said that “you are not good because you are better than others, you are good simply because you are good!”
See the difference? When you live your life as a DJ, you stop comparing yourself with others! You stop asking other people, what they think about you – because you are alone with your character. And still, there are and there will always be Don Juans who ask: “What clothes would look good on me?” What’s the matter, my fellow DJ’s? Are you afraid to know what is within you? If not, then why are you taking all this as a competition, and thus, end up in a situation when you want as much as possible as fast as possible (compare this to my weight losing)!
This is not a competition. This is a way of life. And still some people want to decrease the number of newbies coming here in fear of competition!
This is not a competition. This is a way of life. Because the change comes from within.
I had forgotten the perfect and unconditional respect towards myself and my environment. That’s why it didn’t became a way of life, but a competition: winning the competition made me feel good, and I wanted to feel good all the time, that’s why I didn’t lose weight as slowly as it should happen in order to be permanent. Then I realized that I was doing the same mistake in adopting the DJ stuff into my life! My DJ’ing didn’t end up in a catastrophe, but I didn’t find any kind of permanent happiness, either. I couldn’t make DJ’ing a way of life for me, I couldn’t adopt it as a part of my character. I had forgotten respect. You feeling good must not come from you getting a phone number of a hottie or losing weight fast. It must come from somewhere else – it mus come from your CHARACTER, which you must build and modify ALL THE TIME. That’s when you can truly talk about self-respect; that’s when you can truly adopt new things into your ways of life.
But look at the people at this forum! The RESPECT is missing from so many people… too many, if you ask me! People have adopted the aggressive aspects of being a DJ. And why not, that is the easy part. But every time I see someone b!tching how “every woman is a b!tch”, I think to myself: That DJ wouldn’t say that if the AFC within still wouldn’t remember all the humiliations. That AFC lives in the character of a DJ… and the character, apparently, still remains the same no matter how much the DJ has tried to change himself. Sure, some might say that this DJ just has “the right attitude”. But then again, many great DJ’s have said that a real DJ respects not only himself but also women. “The right attitude” is good to learn, but it must be learned with RESPECT. It must be adopted as a way of life!
So, how exactly do we alter out character, and our ways of life? Well, why don’t you start by accepting the fact that you are not perfect – for heaven’s sakes, there is nothing more boring than perfect people! Accept the fact, that the universe doesn’t run around you, so you can start truly exploring – not only the world outside, but also what is inside of you! Instead of blindly following the DJ techniques, learn some other techniques too and see for yourself what works for the best – because that is the only way to truly learn and adopt these techniques deeply. Explore everything with curiosity, including what is within you, and thus give yourself the character you need and deserve, make the change that has to be done in order to truly be a DJ. Then, if you still believe in the sayings of this site, it will become your way of living. As long as the change within you has happened. It must be adopted into your CHARACTER! AND THE DJ BIBLE SAYS NOTHING ABOUT THIS!!!
This is not a competition. This is a way of life.
Life is not a competition, Living is a way of life. This is not as simple as it sounds (it took me years to accept this fact). It is a long journey. But the journey can also be fun as hell.
